Odd man out....please help?

this is very normal...you've been there for it all and now they're leaving you...it hurts eh? i know how ur feeling... but you just have to understand they have to be a family on there own you will always be a huge part of their lives and you need to remember that. keep in contact.... are you dating at the moment? if your in a serious relationship maybe now you should consider having a family of your own... i don't know you but you seem to have that "family man" mentality.

Good Luck hun

I think you shouldn't be mad because the only reason your brother-in-law wasn't there was his job. I understand how you must feel, you were sort of the "father" while he was gone. I think you should just be thankful that he isn't out there disregarding his responsibilities to his family but working for them.

So that you won't feel bad, try and visit them every once in a while. That feeling will soon fade away.

well, it's actually kinda off for your sister to that without even thinking about how you'd feel after all you've done, she should know that you're already emotionally attached after being with them and taking care of them blah blah,.. but it's not right to be mad, try talking to her, no dont rty. talk to her, tell her how you feel, she's your sister and she will understand you, but it's still up to her whether however she's gonna respond and whatever she's gonna do about it. just let her do what she has decided, respect it, after all you really cannot do anything about it but to say how you feel.