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Have I just grown out of her???
Ok I have a cousin whom I grew up with she’s more like a sister however she gets on my last nerve! She’s 21 I’m 24 she’s single, I’m married with a fam(and a baby one the way) meaning we don’t have much in common besides being fam. She’s always trying to get over on people like use them to get what she wants and puts family on the back burner for nothing a** dudes that treat her like crap! She has dated a few of my ex’s some of my other cousin’s ex’s and she goes behind her friends and date there ex’s to. I finally told her I didn’t want to kick it with her so much anymore and she went off name calling and everything!!!! But all I was saying was I don’t want to b around her 24-7 we used to hang every weekend, she would call everyday I mean gosh(yes I have explained this to her)!!!!! It was irritating!!!! Oh yea the questions is am I over reacting? She said some harsh things to me and now I’m to the point of F her I don’t need her which I don’t!
NO I don’t think it’s because I’m pregnant either b/c when I wasn’t she still got on my freaking nerves I just kept it to myself but enough is enough maybe u do just grow out of people? What do yall think? Thanks!!
i did ease up off talking to her i stopped txtn as much and just notified her about how the baby was doing and that happened for about 3wks that's what made her start asking y was i so distance with her i tried to avoid making a big deal but i finally told her and now its a big ol argument to the point where she wants to fight me!!! she sooooo childish and hot headed and im done!
3 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Perhaps instead of telling her to her face that you didn't want to kick it so much with her anymore you just weaned her from inviting her and accepting invitations to get together it would have avoided the nasty confrontation. You are an adult, you don't have to hang with her if you don't want to and you don't need explain why you want to change your relationship. Now it is going to be a little more difficult to make nice when you all get together for family functions.
I don't know if you have "grown out of her" since that makes it sound like you are superior. However you do have a lot on your plate right now and don't have time to hang like before . Your lives are just going in different directions at the moment.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's quite rough to say to someone's face "hey I don't like when you act like a bum zit...always there and such a pain". Just don't talk to her as much, busy yourself and keep the phone convos extra short. She'll figure it out eventually.
- t-boneLv 51 decade ago
you may have saved your Marriage.
She sounds as though you may wish to keep tabs on your husband, although she is away my bet is she will try and worm her way around your hubby, just for spite.
i would talk to your spouse and explain your concerns, just make sure she never corners him alone.
we men are really dumb and wouldn't pass up the chance to get it going with a slut like her. we are dogs. and enjoy the chase.
