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Is it hard to be in love?

I'm sorry if this sounds like a dumb question, but is it hard to be in love? I've never had a girlfriend and I've always found the thought of being in love with someone daunting. If I were to get a girlfriend now, I'd have absolutely no idea what to do or how to act. I think being in love and being attached to someone is a difficult task. Is it difficult to be in love with someone? How do you learn 'how' to be in love?

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  • 1 decade ago

    You don't have to learn how to be in love with some one. It's absolutely one of the most natural things in the world. Most people will tell you that you can't control who you love; it just happens. It's hard due to the fact that it's scary to become so emotionally invested in another human being, to give them the ability to complete shatter you and break your heart. It's a risk and that's always going to be tough; but it's worth it. It will be the most incredible feeling and you'll be happier than you thought you could ever be.

  • 1 decade ago

    It may be a cliché, but it is true, when you are truly in Love, you will know it.

    You will know how to act, because you will want to be with that person all the time and on the phone, and you can’t stop thinking about that person.

    It is only hard, if love is a one-way street, or you complicate it with sex, jealously, etc.

    Keep it real, and it isn’t hard.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Love isn't an acquired skill like in D&D, Bro.

    Love just happens. You just wanna be with that person.

    Love is not a chore. and you just act like yourself. If you aren't being yourself, it's not love.

  • 1 decade ago

    lol loving someone is hard work

    everything you do is checked out by her AND her friends

    and it gets even harder when your friends dont like her or her friends dont like you

    but it is worth it for sure

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  • 1 decade ago

    umm can you tell me what the awnser to this is when you get it cuz i have da same q... its not a dumb q..

  • 1 decade ago

    No it is not hard work.........if it is then it isn't love

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