My boyfriend wants me back but I'm not sure of what I want anymore?

You already answered your own question. You can love someone and know they are not good for you.

Move on sweetie. The right guy will feel right. I promise.

I was in a 4-year on-again off-again relationship in high school and the early college days. I should have seen the writing on the wall when I was with this guy only ONE year, but yet I wasted 3 more. I say - ditch this guy and never look back. You don't have to feel bad because "you've hurt him, too." The point is that the two of you do not match/click very well. There is a mysterious draw between you two, but facts are facts...just stay away. There can be/will be a mysterious draw between someone else who you can actually get along better with. Learn the life lessons you need to learn from that relationship and just move on...to someone else.

as a wise but jerk of a person once said and i quote

"you might not even really love him but just the thought

of what once was and the feeling of being in a relationship"

i know exactly how you feel girl been there heard that.

being hurt alot make you and your heart vulnerable

and if the person who hurts you tries to come back you make

it as if they never left.

it is pretty confussing but think of it this way

its is better to start off friends then to meet, tlk, and then date.

its better to see what you need was there all along for every tear you cried over some jerk who broke your heart for all the times you found another one.. the one you told almost everything too.

girl i cant give you advice on what to do. you can take the advice given or you can choose your own fate but you got a good thing goin with the friend dont throw it away..

Ex's are ex's for a reason... If you two have broken up in the past then there was a reason for it just like there's a reason for why you two broke up this time. Instead of getting back with your ex spread your wings and either be single for a bit or get to know your old friend in a relationship way :-)

I say you split for good reason, and if your having to think this hard about it then you really already have your answer. Life is short, and there are allot of great guys out there, and there is a great guy for you out there also. If it didn't work the first time, it probably wont work the second or third he he. Take care and good luck

You can love him and not be perfect for each other, it happens.

If he loved you as much as he claimed, he wouldnt treat you badly, as you said he has in the past.

It sounds to me that you dont want to get back with him, that youd like to be with the new guy.

If this is so, I'd wait a bit before jumping into anything new, in order to make the relationship work.

I think your feelings have changed although you still love him and that it may be time for you try other people if it seems to make you happy.

I think you should go out with your guy friend and even though you love your ex boyfriend maybe yall just need some time apart to see new people. and just see how things go from there

look, u shouldn't use any one .

just to be truthful

if u say that u love eachother and u have hurted eachother

so u can start again and open a new white page together

go back to ur ex and love him . he needs u !

be with the one that you feel will be ther for you and make you happy no matter what. Your ex seems to only want you back just to have someone. I think that you should move on and let things go their seprate ways :]

Get a grip and move on.

A guy that cries like that is generally just a very good liar (if there is such a thing!)

If he was THAT emotional he wouldn't argue would he !