Why is it hard to make friends with both Genders?

well thats awesome :) It's hard to find someone who understands sometimes..

people can be shallow, silly but reality :(. It surprises me how the most (seemingly) confident/fit guys are also sometimes the most insecure and its the genuine insecurity thats a turn off for me I guess. Have genuine confidence in yourself and don't try and fake it because most people you prob want to date are insightful enough to see that if they know you at all... that and you could come off as a *** lol. you don't sounds like one though so you'll prob be fine.

I'm not sure how old you are but as college goes along people start to look for a lot more in a partner.

best of luck :)

if you never hit on girls or flirt with them then how will you develope a sexual relationship with them? by being friends? that's apparently not working is it. Women love to be hit on, by an attractive guy i guess, at least clean and well kempt. it's usually harmless flirting. you can flirt with someone well or you can be all weird and do it like a perv. I'm sure i've fell over the line. but it's not what you do but how you do it and other factors. there's certainly a few perverted women out there, some that would put me to shame. Smile at the checkout girl, tell her she's pretty and that's a nice shirt.

I've heard plenty of waitresses talk about argh this guy or that guy was hitting on them and they didn't like it, but then they met thier husband that way. It's not the fact that your talking to an employee, it's the fact of if she likes you or not.

i wanted to answer the og question, though that's not your concern. I'll also say, you say you get along better with women, great. but women have girl friends, they like dirty smelly strong men. they don't want someone like them. They want a stereo typical horse. Strong stupid and lots of money. It's what they expect, otherwise you're not manly. Don't try to fit in with them, be the knight on a horse.

ask them they'll swear up and down they want sensitivity art and cultured man but they don't go out with those guys. in general.

I don't think your weight would keep you from having guy friends. You just need to find the right crowd of guys....people who you have a lot in common with...start there. Write down what you like to do...and then think about where/how you can find other guys with similar interests. Then get involved. You will make friends if you put yourself out there. Don't change yourself to get someone to like you or like you more....only change yourself because you want the change.

Your weight should have nothing to do with friendships!

If people are jusging you on that screw them! They don't deserve your friendship nor should you even worry about being associated with them!

Go out and meet people...you will find friends from bot sexes who like you for who you are.

You should NEVER change who you are for anyone!

I am the same (without the weight part) I guess just try to fit in, but don't change yourself

It not hard to make friends with both genders, i have plenty of both genders and am not having to change, sure this'll come up again but it works for me if i am myself lol

ur weight doesnt make a difference if someone likes you for you u r. im haevy and i have alot of friends (both genders) and im gay =)

i dnt kno y u r having an issue.

well first question are you gay? if your not well the advice i can give you is just be yourself, ppl will like you for who you are, i know thats kinda cliche but its the truth, or you could just lie about yourself, like your grandpa is a millionaire or something like that

I don't understand your question, you want to be friends with both genders but you want a girlfriend? : S

because.