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what is my ex thinking? ?

I asked my ex boyfriend to get together for a drink or dinner (we haven't talked in over a year) and he said he thinks it would be fun, but not very smart because of our history. (We had a bad breakup.) What does he mean by this?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe he thinks that you two might reconnect and then possibly have another bad breakup, and he doesn't want to hurt you again.

    If that makes sense.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well honestly!!!!! Its glad its over.

    I am sorry to say it that way.

    But if you like the person you would never brake up would you?

    So i think he is not interested any more unless he gets desperate for sex.

    Move on and forget him,he is not worth the time.

    Look for some one who would love to go out with you,not some one who doesn't give dam about you.

    Be smart girl

    All the best

    Source(s): yahoo.com
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    surely, purely out of the prevalent i do no longer think of approximately my ex for the uncomplicated certainty that i does no longer waste my time on somebody who isn't in my destiny. I stay focused on my guy and don't worry approximately old information. Now if somebody brings him to my interest or he stalks me, to objective and get decrease back with me then specific, for sure he's on my innovations for that split 2d. yet then I sit down decrease back and snigger in my head, understanding i wouldn't in any respect supply him from now on of my existence. And FYI maximum possibly in case you nonetheless love, like, care, omit or understand which you made a mistake on dropping that guy or woman you have been with earlier...nicely specific, you will nonetheless think of approximately your ex. sturdy luck!! And save up the sturdy artwork do no longer decrease your self for no booty call that is not nicely worth it.

  • 1 decade ago

    He means he doesn't want to as of the breakup. It would be askward or uncomfortable

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe because he thinks there is still chemistry, but that the relationship would end like it did last time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It sounds fun to him but it isn't a good idea cause of what happened before.

    Source(s): Dont think about what they say too much cause men are not complicated like women they are simple!
  • 1 decade ago

    guys don't get over girls in a heart beat. he doesn't want to rekindle that spark and have to put it out again. if you want him back you got to jump in with both feet, **** and *** other wise leave well enough alone. tmm

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He's thinking, rightly, that there'll be probably a reopening of old wounds.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe hes pregnant with your baby.

    Source(s): That Arnold Swartzenegger movie.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he means what he said

    it could open up a can of worms

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