he says he loves me but i found something...?

Run. If he is tell you that he loves you he shouldn't be telling another woman that he can't wait to see her smile. He also shouldn't be calling her "sexy." That is inappropriate. And the fact that he didn't tell you about sending that particular message (or that he has her number for that matter) means he was intentionally hiding it from you. Confront him about it. Tell him what happened with the myspace log in. Then tell him what you found and how it felt to see that. The rest of the decisions are up to you. If I were you, I would break it off and move on. Besides, are you going to be able to trust him ever again?

My ex used to do the same b.s. with me. He would send me jewelry and gifts sometimes, but still be talking to other women behind my back. He told me he loved me every night for a large part of our relationship. He also said he wanted to marry me. It turns out he had been cheating on me with his ex the entire year and a half. So ask yourself this ---if he is hiding this from you, what else is he hiding. I wish I had asked myself that same question..it would have saved me a lot of heartache and a a lot of anger.

You need some confidence and focus in your life. Until you have it relationships will be tough.

I say take some time off form the dude - pull your head out of you behind and go make something of yourself. There is so much more to life that n chasing guys around and worrying if you stepped on their toes. Go out and friggin conker the world! Let them chase you!

Praise God !! It is better to find out now, than 5 years later like the last one. Hmmm!! I'm not very sharp on certain things, but even I can see a pattern. Cut this predator loose and move on. Please be more careful next time, learn from this lesson The Lord let you find, before it was too late.

Yes... i think there is something.....but i wud hav done these 2 things b4 making any decision.

1. Wach or spy him constantly(with diffrent angle other than i used to do it him early ).Wach every move...i know this will take considerable time and energy but it's inevitable in building relationship....

2. Ask him directly @ myspace accident and while doing so strengthen your views and then observe his body language and also see how he defend himself. Study it and your intution will definately guide you someting ...follow ur heart then and move on....Good luck

girl

dont let him pull a fast one

wha ti say is take work off that day and show up at that bowling alley

and just kinda spy

cus if he is messing around and flirting u dont deserve that

not after a year that u gave him

uhhhh. NO! your bf should not be calling another girl sexy. you need to show up at that bowling alley, or better yet, don't show up. this guy is a player. lose him. he may love you, but a cheater is a cheater, and he will not change. he loves all the ladies that make him feel special.

ok so i had some thing llike this happen to me in a way...

but my boyfriend introduced me to a girl && told her i was his girlfriend && told me thar she was his best friend well we arent dating anymore because his best friend turned out to be his f*** buddy.....

im not saying your guy is gonna cheat but with his history of cheating && the message there is a big possability so i would dumb him or just show up at the bowling alley && ruin his funnn that'll help(:

Well, as long as you didn't read "Meet me later for some hot hot sex" I wouldn't take that as cheating. If you're certain he loves you, I wouldn't worry about it too much since they're just friends. Right?