Does watching porn with your spouse/partner mean it has to be less dirty?

porn is just dirty sex not love so there is really nothing to live up to. It does give ideas of new things but not all men are built or move that way as women are not either.

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Absolutely it is ok if both are enjoying it. No I do not believe most men or women feel threatened by porn at all. It feeds the imagination and can only make for a more exciting sex life.

Anyone who feels threatened watching porn with their partner, is with the wrong person. Don't do it if you feel uncomfortable.

Someone watching porn alone shouldn't be a problem either, as long as its legal. At least they are not OUT cheating.

Personally I think everyones sex life needs a little spice injection every now and then, and Porn is the perfect ingredient .

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Personally, I like porn. I was ashamed to watch it with the first guy I watched it with because I was ashamed to let him know I was enjoying it. But now I am the one with a "porn library" and far more likely to choose and turn it on than my husband.

I can understand how you can feel insecure. The men are hung, the women beautiful and stacked. They can do major things.

But my husband and I could teach porn stars what to do so they can't intimidate us in any technique or act.

Sometimes I will see a girl that I know my husband will think is beautiful and that might make me a bit insecure...but then I remind myself of how wonderful he really is and how this girl is NOT me and can't compete and isn't there with us and that if my hubby does get extra turned on by her then I ALONE get to enjoy the fruits of that...

Porn is a great way to get new ideas, and helps start the fire. My boyfriend doesn't except me to be a porn star, or act like one. If you are threatened by a porn star then you have more self esteem issues waiting in the wings.

I think it is perfectly fine me and my husband watch it together all the time we try a lot of the things from them but i never feel like i have to be just like the women on there. We have a great sex life porn sometimes helps to spicen it up a little.

Porn is just a tool to warm yourself up.. plus it will give you some ideas of different things to try. What do the people in porn have to offer? a loose vagina? Years of therapy? That's all I can think of.

I'm a g/f and I'm fine with it. If its done together and not every night. In other words, if the only thing that gets him turned on is porn, then that's a problem. Once a week porn? Sure.

It's ok as long as both partners are ok with it. I think a lot of people are uncomfortable with porn because of the deep-seated social mores that view sex is something "dirty" that should only be done in private.

Hell no! We know that what is on there is not reality. I mean those men on there take male enhancement drugs and the girls are usually high AND when you see the man hammering away forever well that's because he c-u-m-s before the film. Now if your worried amateur porn is good to watch.