would you rather be with someone who loves you or with the one you love?

someone who loves me b/c then i am sure that they ultimately feel the same way towards me as i do towards them. :]

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well it really depends on the situation. As for myself I believe that love should not only be carried out by one person but both. If you choose the one that loves you then where is the happiness in you and your eyes and as for the one you love, you may love him/her with all your heart but do they feel the same? The answer to that question is no, of course they dont feel the same. So u should find someone that you love and loves you. That would only not help the satisfication of you but the other too. This will create everlasting relationship and love whether its a friendship or a couple thing

Haha, I asked a similar question. After everyone's feedback I'd have to say the one I love. You can always hope to learn to love the one you're with, but if you've tried and done it and it doesn't work you're being unfair to yourself and the person that loves you. You don't want to make the same mistake as me by staying with someone who loves you, but you don't love. It hurts, and eventually your feelings will manifest. If you haven't gone for the one that you love then you still have a chance. Take a chance. At least you won't have to wonder 'What if...?'

This gets back to the old song 'are you gonna stay with the one who loves you, or are you going back to the one you love?'

I have (still am) been in this position nyself. The only thing that I can suggest is that you follow your heart. Who do you want to wake up next to every morning for the rest of your life?

I myself, would rather be with the one I love.

I would rather be with someone that loves me.

Someone who loves me.

why would i want to be with someone who doesn't love me back?

why would someone want to be with me if i don't love them back?

i'd rather be with someone who loves me just as much as i love him.

From experience i say the one who loves me.

With the one I love...I cant control how someone else feels...so...why would I care...

neither....but if i had to pick i'd wanna be with someone who loves me...cause i know if he loves me my love will grow for him...he'll treat me good and i know thats what i deserve.

i would like to be with some one who loves me............