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Rate My Chances? Please?

Hi everyone. I really like this guy, and I'm not sure what my chances are.

Here's some things that are good:

During a weekend school trip, he kept laying on me. He didn't know I was bi yet.

After a whole fight when he figured out I was bi, he is cool with it, and here's what happens after:

We go to movies. I keep brushing his arm, leg, and hand. He says nothing(probably thought nothing of it).

When I asked him if he likes me, he turned bright red and his eyes were "OMG". He said no.

He texts me a lot.

I was on the phone with him for an hour and a half. Until 11:30/12:00 at night.

He kinda sorta flirts with me, and I flirt back (I think).

I was joking with him about our school play and didn't say anything about my part. I asked what about me. He said "oh shut up I care about you"

He offered me a prop for my "supposed" role.

Have asked if he likes any girls. He said no.

Downsides:

Has had girlfriends.

Has said no to "Are you gay?" questions.

Will sometimes go on periods of not texting me. HE's busy though.

Friends have said he doesn't seem gay.

Am I being too hard on myself, or am I hopeless?

Tips appreciated. ;D

Update:

Uh, I'm not at the age where I get him drunk and in bed. Lol.

Update 2:

I don't think gays are an abomination. That would be hating my parents. WOO lesbian upbringing!

Update 3:

Oh, if this helps, I told him our chaperone and his kid for the school trip were looking at "stuff" (how messed up is that?) while he was sleeping and he got grossed out.

Update 4:

The "OMG" was like a good omg. If that makes sense.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Don't ask him any more if he's gay. Accept his friendship. He may have confusion about his own sexuality and does like you as a person. Possibly your fight with him and his red face is because of his confusion and he was suprized and shocked that you may know or suspect something about his confusion. Give him some time just being pals and doing what you've done already. If he is bi he will eventually come around to you if you are the person he desire to do this with.

    Often when one likes another as friends with fringe benifits, and sometimes not, they find each other at a sleep over where it is more private and discrete.

    Good luck.

    Source(s): While in university part of my curriculum was psychology and Core Humanities, both having lectures and assignments concerning Human Sexuality. Over several decades studies combined done by top researchers in all parts of the world came to these findings: 1 out of 10 humans globally are bi/gay. 75% of males (can't remember female scores) have had 1 or more same sex experience in their life (varying ages of individuals experimentation for one reason or another: ages from young boys, tweens, teens, young adults, adults to old men), are straight; most married with children. Based on a true/false scale of 15% ratio. Also, many conversations and debates with clergy of different cloths (most agreeing) with, and the findings of leading psychiatrists and other medical doctors, researchers and scientist of the Human Development of Mankind, and anthropologists agree upon this: A human is born bi/gay, it is not a choice, illness, disease, birth defect, anyone’s fault (such as parental genes), culture based, promoted by another human or a sin. For that person it is natural and normal. Every human has the right to love and be loved no matter what gender they happen to be drawn to.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why do you think it is good if his eyes were OMG and he said no? That doesn't sound like he's interested in romance with you.

    He sounds like a good friend, but if he is bi or gay (as perhaps evidenced by his lying on top of you), he doesn't seem ready for you in a romantic way.

    He may not be gay, and he may not be ready anyway. You have to wait, and meanwhile be on the lookout for guys who may be ready and find you attractive.

    I tend to agree that if he felt the same way, he would find a way to let you know that. I sure would.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    heres a tip : give it up.

    even if you wer slightly succesful and managed to bed him one time in some drunken state, you have just lost a valuable friend.

    things can never be the same again. he is worth far more to you as a friend and ally than if you alienate him this way.

    will it be worth it?.

    I am certain if he felt even half of what you would like him to feel for you, then his response would have been far more than just "being cool with it". you would have been there by now and no need to ask.

    drop it now before you both lose a friend

  • 1 decade ago

    i think he might be bi as well but struggling to get it out, be patient maybe he needs time, and for the time being i suggest you remain good friends and leave it there, at least for know, till you find some other thing is that point out that he is bi

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  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like he just might like you but may not be comfortable with it just yet. I would say to keep doing what you are doing. He could come around suddenly. But you might want to ask him what he meant about "oh shut up i care about you"

  • 1 decade ago

    I am well aware that at your age the word patience is no in your vocabulary, but it is a nice virtue to practice. Give both of you time and see where life leads you; you could be surprised at the findings.

    Best of luck.

    Source(s): an old devil
  • 1 decade ago

    i think he may be gay lol good luck!

    keep doing what ur doing he sounds like a closet case to me.

  • 1 decade ago

    go for it cuz i think he mite b gay

    just tell him ur true honest feelings and at least u wil hav comfort in knowing that he knows

  • 1 decade ago

    sorry but idk

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