how to deal with an insecure boyriend?

HA HA you tel me?

I am in the same situation my self,with my girlfriend

Its one thing you can't do any thing about it,

And you know it your self that one day you are going to miss all the treats that this guy can't offer you,and eventually you will live him.

Personally me and this guy we are wasting are time with you rich girls,

WHY?

1 you rich people go parting in rich places

2 you do that every week at list

3 you or your family have High expectation from your man

4 your taste of things are way out of this guys budget,but he try it to make you happy with whatever he can

5 but he can never impress your family

6 just to give YOUR wedding dream he has to work for the rest of his life

Lots of other things which is to much to list it all

before this rich B***** that i have now,i use to go out and enjoy my self and spend about £20-30 a night.

Now £50-100 a night,i work for the hole week to make her happy in the weekend only.I must mention in soft drinks only no alcohol.

I would dread that.

I never have been in trouble with my credit cards until now,excluding my wages i am in £1000+ and going up every day.

So see what i mean?i have to sit down and talk to her about this,

what do you thing her answer will be!!!!

I know whats going to happen,but some times we have tough chices to make,if she loves me then she will understand me,but try to convince me its an other mater.

She is used to drink shampagn,will she live that for lemonade.?

Maybe i don't know.

But can you see what i am trying to say,cos your boyfriend feels the same as me.

The problem is that we love you other ways we couldnt care less what you think or would do.

I think you have tough job in your hands,but if you make him understand then you got your self a man for life.

Oh by the way please tell me how its working between you to,or did he get over this?

I personaly think at times i wish i did know early stage that she was rich other ways i wouldnt got involved with her at all.

Its like the FINANCIAL INSECURITY=AGE GAP same thing one side all ways insecure about the other half.

All the best

lol, its okay. i feel for him.

anywez, you can let him pay for things. and if he cant afford to take you someplace,

do something free, like a picnic or something.

then thank him for taking you to a wonderful date.

maybe you shouldnt show to much attachment to your things, becaue maybe that's why he feels bad, because he sees you happy with so many things he can't give you. you dont have to like, pretend you arent' rich, or dont have all these fancy things, just like, iono dont show so mcuh attatchment to them

(im not saying youre materialistic or anything!)

and always make sure that he knows that you enjoy being with him, and that it doesnt matter where you are or what youre doing, as long as youre with him.

but dont tell him like straight up, do things to show that expression.

best of luck.

Men like to be the man

He will get over it there are worse things

he should feel good, he's being taken care of. hes got a sugar momma.