My mom has cancer an my last grandpa just died today, I need to hear from others that feel like I do, please?

I know what your going through and its like a shower of rain on the inside that doesn't stop falling. I am helping my sister out with her husband who is terminally ill with cancer and he will be lucky to see christmas out this year.

People say "stay strong", but its hard and sometimes you seem to be able to cope when the person who you have to stay strong for, turns up. Cheers

I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa and your mom. I just lost my aunt about a month ago to cancer. It takes a long time to heal. What always helps me is knowing that she is no longer in pain. And that if she were here, she would not want me to be sad for her. It made me realize how short this life is and i want to live it to the fullest. I still hurt sometimes but it slowly gets better. I heard a great quote that is so very true:

To honor those who have fallen, we must live our lives well.

I know what u r going threw i lost my mom 10 yrs ago with heart attack and lost my dad a yr ago with cancer i know how u feel i miss my parents very much.but u know your mom or grandpa would not want u to make yourself sick. Just be there for your mom while she is here and tell her everyday u love her and believe me u will be alright i am doing just fine because my mom and dad is not sick no more @ they r together again in heaven. Take care of yourself and god bless u!

I sorry to hear that you are suffering.

It's okay to be 'not good with your heart' and feel 'dizzy and lost' because these things are very hard.

Don't try to make it go away or try to rationalize it. It is okay to hurt and miss your grandparents and have strong feelings about your mom's condition, because that is how you feel about it.

Share how you feel with people (like you are doing here) and know that you have to allow yourself time to grieve or be sad or even angry. You don't have to be strong or accept that time will make you feel better.

If you are not strong enough to cope right now that's okay. You may never feel good or right about these things, but do give yourself the time to really understand your thoughts and feelings. These are very hard things to deal with in life.

It might not make it any easier, but you might be able to find peace in understanding that your feelings are real and honest and that you let them come out and had them.

All my best to you and your family.

My last grandpa died on january 9th of this year from cancer. I still miss him more than anything in the world. you just have to keep your head up high because he wouldnt want you to be sad, he would want you to keep your head up, and be happy for him. im really sorry for your loss. If you ever need someone to just talk to feel free to e-mail me.

I have breast cancer and just got off work , working a 12 hour shift at a busy emergency room. I hate to see you are going through this rough time, I really do.

You are going to have to pray for God to see you through this.

We are not in the Garden of Eden anymore, we are just decedents of the scene at the Garden, so we have to hang in there till God comes to take us all back home.

I'm sorry.

I had a grandma that died of cancer,although I wasn't close to her,I can only imagine what you are going through.

Just stay strong for your mother and keep her as happy as possible,she can beat this,people beat it everyday!

Hope this helps,and good luck.

Stay positive.

*hugs* =)