oh! that's lucky man to have younger wife - infrontof older wife, younger husband repeatly says like that?

Even though it's completely normal for a guy to THINK that, his lack of an inner umpire to not say that thought aloud is either rude, stupid or done on purpose to hurt you.

That said, I do think that thought ALL the TIME since I reached mid-life. Sorry.

But you should punish him for being so reckless.

The man who keeps saying this sounds like he's coveting his neighbor's wife. Tell him he's breaking the 10th Commandment.

It is very thoughtless. Why would he say that? He's really saying something about himself.

My wife is older than I am and I would never say that. I'm lucky to have her.

I would be offended. my hubby loves that song older women make better lovers and he's always dated older woman until me and it used to offend me highly when he made comments like that. Just tell him in a calm matter.

yes it is offensive, it is no different than a man that will call his wife a fat cow or other names.

I'm sure that must hurt your feelings.