Weirdest situation ever!?

I know you do not want to hear this but you need to move on.

A NICE GUY would not be ashamed of you in front of his friends! That is like so UN nice!

Throwing something like your weight in your face and playing games with you and another girl are also very UN nice ways to behave!

So you say "at least he is honest". Sure, but about what? That he likes your body but doesn't want to be seen with you?!?! That he is SHALLOW?

And then letting you know you are "in a contest" over him with some other girl? What a jerk!

His behaviour is so far beyond unacceptable that it makes me sad you will tolerate it for even one minute!

And I know I don't know him. And it seems you are dead set on convincing yourself he is "nice otherwise" (gosh I don't see how does he say "please may I insult you" before he calls you fat!?!?!?)

But seriously, an outsider reading what you wrote here would have to agree that he is NOT nice AT ALL!!

Girl, you are worth so much more and I hope you believe that enough to MOVE ON.

All the best,

J

Ok, why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who, right off the bat, told you you were fat? If he cares that much about what his friends think, then he won't be able to stand up for you, if his friends ever did insult you.

And, would you be able to trust a guy who was seeing someone else at the same time as he was seeing you? Trust is a very big part of relationships, and he's already lost it.

Bottom line, he is a loser, and he will ruin your self esteem. He's playing head games with you. And if he isn't, then he's a tool and you really shouldn't get yourself caught up in that kind of a relationship. Look for someone who likes you for who you are, and not for how you look.

I'm sorry but he sounds like a douche bag. If you aren't good enough for him the way you are then forget about him and try to find someone who will like you for you. Or just stay single for a while.

If he's seeing someone else then that is messed up obviously he is a player and it sounds like he's stringing you along without having to make any commitment.

If say the devil asked you out and said, hey I'm satan but I'll tell it like it is. Would you be like, well at least he was honest and give him a chance? Yeah I'm a little out there but that's beside the point.

Good luck and don't sell yourself short because you deserve someone who will respect you.

Ok, let's translate this Guy Talk to real, meaningful words:

"My friends would laugh at me if they saw me in public with a fat chick, but you're an OK f--k in private."

Sorry to be so blunt, but when you cut out all the BS he dropping, that's all that's left.

I mean, you slept with him, and THEN you find out he's interested in dating? Come on! That's what craigslist is all about -- casual hookups in cyberspace.

Why don't YOU get some self-respect, drop this sh-tbird, and find a real boyfriend, somebody who is appreciative of a "curvaceous" girl, someone who doesn't mind being seen with you in public, and leave keep the bedroom off-limits until you know this one is a real, honest, "keeper", not some cyberspace pervert, preying on chubbies.

He isn't all that interested in you, but wants to get a little something something now and then.

You could tell him it is either you or the other chick, but don't be surprised if he 1: says you all the way, but still sees the other chick w/o telling you, or 2: says never mind, hit the road.

You are probably better off looking for another dude.

I think this guy is a total loser and you should just get out now. he is playing a very crappy game with you it sounds like he wants you to be there when he wants you and doesn't want to really be with you. I think you should dump him on his A** and find someone who truly derserves you. Tell this guy to lose your numbers and grow the hell up. If he really liked you he would be proud to take you around his friends no matter what you looked like.

He's not worth it. WAY too much drama. Do you really want to deal with that??? I see a lot of reasons not to get involved and you should be looking for more qualities than "basically nice." Again, not worth it.

if he doesn't want to be with you in front of his friends, hes not worth it

he needs to be able to show you affection infront of the world

it wouldnt be good for your self esteem to keep seeing him in private

by seeing him in private makes you his bi**tch... no offense

but i rather be a bi**tch than someone's bi**tch

get what im saying

sorry if any of this comes out wrong and you think im being mean or anything

=]

he is not a nice guy................just because he calls it does not mean he likes you,he just wants to have sex with you respect yourself follow your heart and your know the answer. you know your asking because the situation makes you rethink yourself that means is wrong dont do it.dont go to him and about the other girl dont even bother. about him being honest if he said honestly jump of that bridge( would you?)

Honey this guy is not honest or nice.

He is a Jack A$$.

Kick him to the curb NOW.

You need to learn how to stand up for yourself.

Who cares if he thinks you are a B*tch!