Am I wrong to be worried about my boyfriend?

you arent wrong to ask him to tell you that what he is doing so you dont worry... i have had similar things happen to me with my current boyfriend (although he doesnt live with me).. and i totally know how you feel!! i was so worried when he wouldnt call and then he would and say like he couldnt call or some ****... so i told him that he only needs to take one minute out of his life to call me and tell me he is okay... and i was straight up with how it makes me feel when he doesnt call (i also asked him how he would feel if i didnt call him and he said he wouldnt like it... i think this made him realize what i was going through) so now he calls most of the time

so just try talking to him and tell him how it really makes you feel (tell him you arent trying to be his mom).. if he cares about you he will understand... and also tell him that he only needs to briefly tell you where he is; it doesnt have to be like in detail or anything... you just need to know so you dont think he is dead or something

just be honest with him and everything will work out

I think you're driving your man nuts and he's trying to get away from you. Your constant nagging is making him want to stay out of the house. Do I think he's inconsiderate? Yes. Do I think he should let you know where he is every waking moment of the day? No. Both of you need to repsect one another. You're not respecting his space and he's showing lack of consideration. There needs to be a balance. He's right, you are not his mother and can't be checking up on him 24-7 but he also needs to check in with you once in a while and not show up hours later without the "milk" in his hand so to speak. What I would do is stop worrying too much about what he's doing because you can't control a guy no matter what, he will only be conrtolled if he wants to be. Go out and do your thing and turn the tables on him, see how he likes it. Once he's humbled down have a talk with him and see what the hell his dissapearing act is all about. The more he does this, the more prone he is to do other things that can possibly damage the relationship.

I'm sorry to say that this doesn't sound good. He is hiding something and doesn't want you to find out about it. I would not let him drive your car unless he is telling you where he is going and showing you that he is responsible. You could be held liable if something would happen while he was driving. I would be looking for a way out if I were you, I think he's using you to be perfectly honest. He is getting a place to live and a car to use with no worries if anything happens to it. I don't want to be harsh, but sometimes life is this way. Good luck on this and I hope everything works out for you.

I would be furious at him. He had your car and you had every right to know where he was with it. It was very rude and inconsiderate to leave you without your wheels. I think he is using you and it is like he will continue to do so if you let him. I would leave or kick him out depending on whose place it is. Give him a wake up call, let him know he is on the verge of losing you. If he cares he will change if not he will just use you as long as you let him. You and your feelings should be important to him.

His behavior is rude, uncaring, and hostile. Kick his *** to curb by not being there when he comes back or by changing the locks if the lease is in your name. Don't let him use your car if he can't be considerate of your feelings. Obviously he knows that his behavior bothers you and he blows you off. If you stay then understand that you are letting him treat you this way and he will continue to do exactly what he wants.

i think of you're employing your guy nuts and he's attempting to get faraway from you. Your consistent nagging is making him choose to stay out of the homestead. Do i think of he's thoughtless? definite. Do i think of he ought to show you how to be attentive to the place he's each and every waking 2nd of the day? No. the two one in each and every of you would be able to desire to repsect one yet another. you at the instant are not respecting his area and he's exhibiting loss of attention. There desires to be a stability. he's acceptable, you at the instant are not his mom and would't be checking up on him 24-7 yet he additionally desires to examine in with you sometimes and not ensue hours later devoid of the "milk" in his hand in an attempt to communicate. What i'd do is supply up nerve-racking too plenty approximately what he's doing given which you are able to no longer administration a guy no count number what, he will basically be conrtolled if he desires to be. pass out and do your element and swap the tables on him, see how he likes it. as quickly as he's humbled down have a communication with him and see what the hell his dissapearing act is all approximately. The extra he does this, the extra companies he's to do different issues which could probable harm the courting.

Break up with him and take back shares of the house, if any, with you because he's probably cheating. The store is the WORST excuse ever because if he doesn't come home for eight hours, he is NOT at the store.

He should want to call you and talk to you and include you. He is being completely irresponsible and rude. It almost seems like he wants you to leave. Cheating is also on the table at this point. Go get yourself checked for stds and start planning your escape. Sorry :(

ok that is just wrong.. the dude doesnt have the sense to lay it down and say this is what I am doing.. instead he lies.. he feels like he has to lie to you and that is a serious problem.. you need to talk about this and if sacrifices need to be made then make it.. he stops his lying and maybe you trust the situation a little more.. if you are religious he's in God's hands and just pray for his safe return.

ask him to let you know when something drastic he is going to do, don't sound to clingy otherwise he will feel smothered, say "hey hun can you just let me know what your doing something drastic in the future, give a few examples because i care about you and need to organise my day too. if he really loves you he will listen and realize it botherers you and that you just care. he will start doing it.