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? asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

I don't understand myself??!?

I do weird things like send this guy I like lyrics to songs. I get upset when he doesn't call me. I get jealous all the time.....but here's the thing: he has a girlfriend. What should I do? He says he loves me and I believe him but there is doubt. If he loves me why won't he break up with his girlfriend for me?? I'm just so confused.

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  • Haley
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    He's obviously not worth the time. If he has a girlfriend lay off and since you know he's not faithful to his current girlfriend why would you want a relationship with him?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What don't you understand here, sweetie?

    You're jealous because he's in a relationship with someone else, and he must be spending time with her sometimes.You're upset when he doesn't call because it symbolises that he doesn't care. Your brain is telling you very loudly that he's a jerk and yet your body and heart are both telling you that you really care about him. There's bound to be major rollercoaster emotions here because there's a conflict between logic and emotion.

    If he loved you, he would break up with his girlfriend. Because he doesn't, or hasn't broken up with her yet, doesn't mean he doesn't like you or care for you, but if he was at all intelligent or kind, he wouldn't be stringing you along.

  • 1 decade ago

    First, it will take some time to mature and to get a strong sense of self. You are just growing up and going through the typical emotional roller coaster of youth.

    I will tell you a secret about guys. If a guy is really into you, you will know about it. You will not need to guess. However, guys will tend to say things that they don't mean. So, just watch the actions, and discount the talk.

    Enjoy a long and happy life!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if he loves you then he would have broke up with the other girl!

    actions speak louder then words!

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  • poppy
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    he doesnt love you he loves you loving him so leads you on

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    because he doesnt want the other girls heart u mother ******

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