saving the sex......?

CHASTITY all the way. dont feel pressured to do it, do it when u think its right, u dont wanna regret losing it to someone who pressured u into it.

Neither of you should be having sex unless you are married

and planning onhaving children

Your life is not even begun yet and your already mucking it up with a bad "relationship"

Get serious about your life and future

stop giving in to the lusts of your bodies

use your mind and be reasonable

there is no reason to pursue this relationship since both your lives have not even begun yet

You are still a child

You cannot have sex becuz you are not prepared or willing to deal with all the consequences (whether you think they will happen or not is not an issue)

You are a child and if you want to cloud your future, continue this torrid relationship;

If you want to make a grown adult decision, Stop seeing this person; you knolw that you cant (dont want tO) control your lustful feelings around this person, so stay away from her for both your benefiTS

YOU cannot control what she does

you can only control waht you do

so be smart and get the hell away from her and stay away from sex

Sex complicates and can destroy your future

You are too young

What is wrong with children today

Do you think the parents who brought you into this world would really be okay with you having sex before you find someone youlLove?

You kids NEED to stop giving in to your bodies and get some BALLS

Be real and develope some damn character.......

You need to be asking your parents these things

THink of your future

concentrate on school and what you want for your life

dont you want a life???

Leave the girls a lone

Be friends

Dont get all crazy over anyone

YOur Heart, your feelings, your love is PRECIOUS

dont give up even a little of these to anyone who doesnt desrv your all

You are too young

ANd im sure you dont want to hear these things

the truth is not always pleasant

but neither is real world and real life

get over your body and control it

Focus on yer future and get true love and affection and support form your family

You say you are a "virgin"

If you "did things" with anyone --you are no "virgin"

VIrgin means pure

dont give yerself away

You are too good for just enyone and evryone

Give yourself to your wife in your future

Sex should nolt even be a factor in your life at all

Participate in helping your community after school

keep a job!!

Be responsible

Get your school work done and do well

Focus on becoming the perosn you want ot be---successful and happy

Talk with you r parents

talk to them

talk to them

I'm glad to hear that this girl stopped having sex with these people when you guys started to be an official couple, but she shouldn't be pressuring you into having sex with her. She should respect that. Be strong and don't give in. It's not selfish by far for you to want to save it. If she really likes you, she will wait. If she doesn't understand, she's just silly. When I lost my virginity, it was with someone I really liked and cared for. We were together for 4 months before we had sex. He dumped me a week later and bragged to all of his friends about us having sex. I wish I didn't listen to my hormones. Nonetheless, I think it's great that you want to wait.

If this woman in your life truly means that she will wait for you she will. Also if she is sincere she will not harass you or try to guilt or tempt you into having sex with her. If you feel pressured into having sex it will not be pleasant and you will come to regret your decision later. Trust me on this one.

Stick to your principles. And NO you are not selfish. Do not ever think like that about your virginity. It is very important and should be shared by someone who truly loves you.

I think you should break up with her. There's nothing wrong with you waiting, but she doesn't sound very faithful at all. And you should not feel pressured to do anything you don't want to just because of her. If she's already been with other guys after you two made out, even if you weren't officially together, that's not a good sign. Call it off.

I think its the weirdest thing I ever heard!

I mean ......how can you call a girl a Fresh MAN ?

How very very GAY is that?

Why don't you try CELEBRATE instead of CELIBATE and release all of that heavily built up testicular tension. I am sure by the sound of it that she is more than ready to receive and eschew every drop of love you will undoubtedly provide for her ultimate fulfilment.

And wot the heck is a f buddy

Jeez you American got funny name for things and funny way of mucking about instead of just getting into it!

I think you should definitely wait and don't let here talk you out of it! Since like 75% of people regret having sex for the first time and not waiting, it might be a good option for you to wait.

Ultimately it's your decision. Don't do anything because of your buddies urging you on or because anyone else wants you to; only do it if YOU want to. Don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to; you might feel bad not giving it to her now, but you'll be feeling it a lot worse later when you terribly regret giving it to her. So, make sure you really are ready when you give it to her. You aren't being selfish; one's virginity shouldn't be taken lightly. You seem like a mature guy, taking it so seriously, so don't give it up so whimsically. Best of luck man.

sorry to be mean like this but she is a whore with a capital W. get out of this relationship fast, she does not deserve to have you and as much as you think you may love her, she is NOT what you want. even though she says shes gonna wait, she still is after the sex and what makes you think she doesn't still have f buddies to satisfy her while she's "waiting" for you.

i'm sorry i don't mean to be rude but that's how it is

You should ALWAYS wait until you are married! Find what you believe in. If you make the mistake of being sexually active, then fine- bad idea. But it is not selfish of you to not give her that if she wants it and you don't. If she cares for you, she will respect that. I hope you wait!

OOOh snap!!! OK.

Don't feel bad. Let her wait, and she's had more than her fill of sex so she can wait. Unless you decide to marry this girl (which is in question because she seems a bit loose -- no disrespect intended) don't have sex with her. Uphold your morals and wait until after you get married.