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Ladies, please help! My ex girlfriend and I are having a baby together ?
My ex girlfriend and I were together for around 9 months and split up at the end of July. We remained friends with "benefits" for two weeks after we split up and thats when we got pregnant.. We decided not to get back together but agreed to raise the baby and be adults about the situation (my choice). She soon started seeing this new guy, and i as well was talking to someone. Everything was cool until I found out how serious her relationship had gotten with this new guy and now its starting to get to bother me! I dont know if its jealousy or just aggression but I cant stop thinking about it & it just gets me pissed. I miss her & I do still lover her but were both in different relationships now. Should i feel this way or should i just move on and let it go? I dont know if its because we are having a child together or because we just split up after a 9 month commitment but I dont know what to do about everything. I work in an office and usually have 10 hours a day to dwell on it.... what should I do?
5 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well sweetie if you love someone set them free and if they come back then it was meant to be...however in some cases this doesn't work. What you may want to do is talk to her and tell her how you really feel and don't give up so easily because you never know what might happen. If you love her go for it...I think now that she is with someone else you feel more in love with her than before when she was single so I think you shouldn't ignore your feelings. I agree with Shana its ok to call and check up on her as she will be in and emotional state during the pregnancy.
P.S. Follow your heart! Remember no matter what, you are always going to have a connection with her because of the baby and the baby being born just might bring you two back together again. Nothing beats a failure but a try!
- 1 decade ago
I would try again. Explain to her how this affect the baby. Tell her how confused your baby would be with two daddies and two mommies. Let her know that you are not trying to raise a confused child. Let her know that trying again won't hurt and it would be better for the baby. Be as attentive to her as you can and call at night sometimes to ask about your baby and how she is feeling. You need to be really nice to her because she is going to be very emotional during this time in her life.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
in case you're curious why she grew to become you down and observed as you by call as a substitute of petnames, then this is in basic terms because of the fact she does not choose you to think of she's head and over heels for you. You grew to become her down and he or she has her delight.. she does no longer desire to coach you she's nevertheless involved because of the fact she could appear as if a foul little female. She needs to coach you she's ok without you being her boyfriend. on the different hand, it may desire to be that she has already moved on or time-honored the incontrovertible fact which you do no longer choose her.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
u should play ur last card and ask her again to try again together...u have nothing to lose..if she still chooses her current bf u should let her go
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