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Should I kiss her and if so, how do I do it without looking like a dork?

I'm going on a first date with a girl I've been chatting online with for a few weeks. I was in a long-term relationship so I haven't been on a first date in years.

I know she likes me so I know she's open to me kissing her. But we're meeting when we're both on lunch hour so its not going to be the most romantic setting.

We may not have any time alone, in which case I guess I shouldn't bother, but if we do have a moment, should I say something (like ask her if I can kiss her) or just go for it?

I know, I'm a dork, but I'm trying not to let her know that!!! lol

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You gotta kiss her as if you know she wants to kiss. Stare into her eyes for a couple seconds, smile confidently. If she looks away and smiles or keeps looking at you with a "I want your -----" look, grab her like a assertive man and go for it. Not too much tho if its a first date. Dont slobber her face, ye know? If she wants it, she won't mind thats for sure.

    Source(s): Personal Experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No kissing on a first date, dork! Especially when it's just a lunch meeting. Whatever you do, don't "just go for it". Respect her feelings, let the first meeting be casual and comfortable, and work up to the sex later.(yes, kissing is a form of sexual intercourse, and intensly personal to some women) You'll look like a gentleman and not a dork if you hold off for awhile.

  • 1 decade ago

    The best way to answer this - you'll know when the time is right.

    If you feel uncomfortable because of setting, too many people around, or just plain don't feel it, don't.

    I'd say that you'll know if you should if the girl smiles at you, it's a go.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't ask... just make a move if the opportunity presents itself. Don't try and create an opportunity because it will just blow up in your face and you'll feel awkward.

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    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    have you ever considered them with out makeup? They were cool with the makeup yet I noted an previous live performance on television the different evening and they weren't almost as sturdy as I perceived them to be as a infant. lost my affection for Simmons for the duration of his Apprentice visual charm, btw.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ok

    buy her an ice cream

    and ask her

    ''i wander if you let my try yours''

    stare at her eyes and if she gives you her ice cream say her

    ''i mean the one that you have already taste''

    ok imagine!!!!

    it s easy for you!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ram your tongue down her throat!

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