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What do you do when a boy best-friend continues to flirt with you and he has a girlfriend?
im physically attracted to him but, i don't see us ever having anything more than a friendship
25 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Ugh.. I totally have the same problem. I have a slight crush on my best friend, but I could never imagine going out with him or anything more than that.
If he keeps flirting with you, the best thing is to ignore it. Act like you're above all the best-friend-flirting and you're more mature. If he comes onto you, simply tell him that you don't want to be more than friends. Friends last longer than lovers, anyway. Maybe he's trying to make you jealous? Who knows. If the matter gets worse, confront him about it Talk to him about his flirting. Maybe he's just a natural flirt and still doesn't feel comfortable around you as a friend. So ignore it. Or talk to him about it.
Best of luck!
Xoxo
- 1 decade ago
It could be just harmless flirting, sometimes its just the way a persons personality is, overly friendly. This could be wats going on or maybe there is something hes feeling for u. Im sure if it isnt an isse with the friend and or his gf i wouldnt think about it, if it truely bothers u talk to him bout it and figure things out. U say u think there is nothing more than friendship there, maybe u need to clear that up with him if its really bothering u
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You tell him how you feel. Let him know you don't see yourself going out with him and since he does have a girlfriend, you should consider it at least a little bit disgusting that he would be flirting with you.
- 1 decade ago
Confront him about it and tell him that you think he should be loyal to his girl and that you don't ever see yourselves "having anything more than a friendship"
That should be simple and straight forward enough for him to understand and he shouldn't be offended by that.
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- SukieLv 51 decade ago
maybe you should approach him about it... like say that it makes you feel a little uncomfortable when he flirts with you and has a girlfriend. tell him that it might hurt her feelings or make her mad if he continues to do so. or just let it go on and pounce when they break up XD preferably the first bit of advice though....
- 1 decade ago
The honest thing to do would to tell him that since he is in a relationship that he should not pass feelings to you or lead you to believe that he's interested in you. It's okay for you to be attracted to him, but to be respectful of his relationship, I would say not to let your feelings show.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
r u friends with his girlfriend? if u are then just leave him, bc she knos your her friend so she wont think theres anything going on..
if shes not your friend then try to make it stop bc u dont want to offend her and make her think theres anything going on besides just friendship
- 1 decade ago
u should tell him how you feel and let him know that u dont want to mess up your friendship
- _nicky_<3Lv 41 decade ago
if you guys have been best friend AND hes flirting with you that means he prob liked you for a while
just expereinces and people i know
- Anonymous1 decade ago
try to tell him off like be like u have a girlfriend and i just want to be friends i don't really know thts my best answers