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an issue with sex....your thoughts?
my girlfriend and i have been together for not so long. we were romantically linked for 10 months (we were best friends at the time) but not exclusive until about a month ago.
she has been sexually active. with a lot of guys. she isnt open to anyone about it except me. before we were a couple, we were best friends. so she would tell me about it. im a virgin though. her sexual history bothers me, i have to admit.
in that period before we were exclusive, she had sex once with a f***buddy. that was right after we made out for the first time.
that kinda hurt alot...
but since then, she has been celibate. for me she says. she is in college. a freshman. im a senior in high school.
i want to believe her. i kinda do. but in the back of my mind, i have doubts about her staying celibate for me.
my decision has been made. im not gonna have sex for a while. just cuz its really not the time for me to do that and i kinda want to wait until marriage or close to it. i just want opinions on my girlfriend and stuff. will she wait...and whatever.
anything would help but i just want to see what other people think.
thanks.
she has expressed that she wants me and her to be sexually intimate. but i already know that i am not up for that yet. she said she understands and stuff.
just a clarification. its not like she wants to be promiscuous while still being with me. she wants to have sex with me. but i want to wait.
thanks.
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
helo! if i would b at ur place'll do the same thing.
just make ur career 1st and giv ur relation time,if she's urs or loves u she should and wil stay 4 u,if she doesn't it'll answer u itself.and if u knw her history of having sex with others,its totaly up to u know tht "can u forget all tht or not"... ask your self and decide.i think NO.
- quinteroLv 45 years ago
Ya its actual because in recent times those human beings imagine this earth as their very last position(Istakfirallah) I mean They ignore about this that some day they're ever Gonna die...they basically favor to ruin this earth and ruin the peace the following and picture that Allah will be happy with them?! Say Am I no longer suitable even as those human beings said as 'Taliban' Killed many women, used many bombs to kill human beings, and does shameful acts and picture that Allah will be happy with them and could Open the door of Paradise?! How is this so?! Its stated Namaz is the foremost of Paradise , yet that would not means that carry out Prayer and Kill human beings and u receives the front to Paradise??!! My Opinion
- 1 decade ago
yeah does std mean anything to u. what is going to go thru your mind when she wants u to go down on her, yuk. find somebody else
