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I'm so confused! What happened?

Ok, so this guy at my school keeps on flirting with me and like he stares at me ALL the time. and like he talks to all my friends about me and talks to me all the time, and when i pass him in the halls he will just look at me the whole time and smile. (oh and ya, he is the NICEST, FUNNIEST, and COOLEST guy in the whole school). so, once a month, we have school dances. and so ya, all my friends were saying he was gonna ask me out at this dance. so i get there, and he sees me, and looks away. so i was starting to get confused. and the dance started. for like 30 minutes, i just hung out with friends and stuff, and then i started looking at him. he was DIRTY DANCING with all the sl^ts and b!tches and those people. and like the whole time in the dance he didnt look at me at all, and didnt have anything to do with me! why is he so sweet and flirty and cool with me at school and had nothing to do with me at the dance?!

Update:

oh and did i mention he's two grades above me?!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    He probably found out you support Obama.......... = (

  • 1 decade ago

    Its a dance, it shouldn't matter that much hon. When I was in high school that's just what we DID. Everyone dirty-dances. And they're there, being all fun n flirty & dancing, they're probably in his social circle, or circles. You're not together so he's being a single dude.

    He stares at you because he likes you, obviously. He thinks you're nice to look at :)

    Don't be offended that he (probably) was just going along with what his other friends were doing. Try talking to him & flirting the rest of the time. If you were going out with him I doubt he'd be freakin with other chicks.

  • 1 decade ago

    if other people think u look hot then he was probably in for ur body but i know when i go to school dances i dance with whoever wants to dance with me he probably danced dirty for popularity

  • 1 decade ago

    becuz hes a guy. And hes not sure if you like him back so he does all of this cuz he doesnt want to get rejected. So just talk to him bout all of this. It will work out trust me

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  • 1 decade ago

    he was probably trying to see if he could make you jealous

    jealousy means you'd like him threw his eyes i guess.

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