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Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

Does this count as proper sex?

me and my boyfriend of 8 months were going to have sex, and he got the bell end in, but then i decided i wasnt ready and we stopped.

does this mean i am not virgin??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Depends on what you think. You can get hyper technical and say he penetrated you, or be realistic and view it like you never really got started, let alone finished, having sexual intercourse.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes you are not a virgin anymore once the penis goes in it's gone you can believe all you want you can do a born again virgin thing but you're never going to be a virgin again.

  • 1 decade ago

    by Christian standards, no you are not. by the rest of the world's standards, it depends on your definition. although even then, some will tell you that you aren't. although the technical definition does involve penetration, which you did. then you could go into the mentality version of a virgin, ie, are you a virgin in your mind to begin with? this stemming from virgins who were raped and such.

  • 1 decade ago

    if u wanna be "technical" u can say he penetrated u. so no ur not a virgin. if u wanna be realistic u can say ur still a virgin because u didnt actually hav sex. u dont know what sex really "feels like."

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well i think it just depends on what you are thinking and feeling...

    if he didnt go all the way in chances are he didnt break your hymen..so if you went to the doctor and they checked they would probably say you are still a virgin..

  • MSS
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    The word "virgin" has no biological meaning. It can define according to what the society and you believe to be virgin. In countries like India this is considered as sex. But we here in North America often refer sex to intercourse where his part actually rub against yours inside vagina.

    So... it is all up to you. Oh... I learned this in my history of gynaecology class. I am in U of C, Canada

    Source(s): Bio medical student.
  • 1 decade ago

    I think it really depends on what you think. I would say that you still are a virgin though.

  • 1 decade ago

    yes, you are technically not considered a "virgin" anymore...

  • 1 decade ago

    no your not because there was penetration.

  • 1 decade ago

    is your hymen bleeding??

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