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Friend Problems! Please help, this is so hard!?
Okay I'm in a group of friends and a lot of them just hate each other, and can't stand to be around each other. But i love them all, and i can sense that were probably going to have to split. But no matter which way we split it's going to be tragic. I don't know what to do...
If you need more details let me know.. please help me i dont know what to do.
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I completely remember these days back in highschool & middleschool. I don't really need details 4 me 2 give u my advice. But I will say this if it is a group of 3 (includin urself it may be easier 4 u) remember 2 stay netural and try 2 get ur other 2 friends 2 work out their problem b/c u don't want 2 b stuck in the middle & tell em u value each of their friendship. But if it is more than a group of 3 they keep in mind knowin that u want 2 b all of their friends that unfourntaly wosrt may come 2 worse & u guys will split up an end up takin different sides. Juss remember during all of this 2 let them kno u don't have problems with them & w.e they r fighting about ud like 2 help them get thru it but at the same time u don't want 2 gossip behind no1s back but if they need 2 vent its ok 2 listen 2 them. But don't u take sides b/c u want 2 b netural & b friends w/all them and if they get mad at u b/c u wanna b friends w/sum1 they r mad at then they aren't really ur friend anyway b/c they should respect ur decision. =]
Source(s): My own experience/thoughts - 1 decade ago
i think a few more details are needed to fully help, but try to tell them how it would hurt you if you had to choose and how you don't want to do that. if worse comes to worse try and be friends w/ both...
hope everything works out. i know it's tough=(
- 1 decade ago
if your group splits, then just be friends with both groups. you should just have one group of friends, be friends with people from other cliques too.