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Is my girlfriend avoiding me, or something else?

The past couple of days I've been getting the feeling that my girlfriend doesn't want me around...

We live about 1 mile apart, I work nights, and she works in the day... the only time we'd have to spend together is after she gets off of work and before i have to go to work, that's just under two hours at most.

But the past two days she hasn't called me, and when I call her she says something like she's tired, but then I see her online for half the night (I am on a computer at work, so I hang out online a lot at night, she also knows this)...

She is generally not very affectionate, but has been even less so for the last week or so, and now not even wanting to see me has me worried...

Any idea's or thoughts are welcome, but I would appreciate it if you give any reasons for your thoughts...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Maybe she's having a bad week at work. You should ask her if anything's wrong at work. This happened to me once. I thought she was having an affair and when I confronted her about it she packed her things and as she left said "By the way, I'm getting laid off at work, FYI" And slammed the door shut...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i would have to say from experience she found some one knew or just got bored of u. happened to me with my ex. as soon as i started a new job and worked 6 days a week and only had one day to be with her and she going to skoo. after a month it started with not seeing each other then talking on the fone just once in a while then eventually just ending it. wat i would do is just find some time and just sit and talk thing out white her and see where it is going

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Here you go, I was dating a girl, she worked days i worked nights i would call she wouldn't answer, i text she wouldn't answer. finally she sent me a text and said i love you but im not in love with you god knows ive tried but i cant do it. so she left mebut the funny thing is that 2 days later i met my now wife. if shes backing off let her there is always greener pastures on the other side of the road

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  • 1 decade ago

    I have to say that usually your instincts are telling you something and if this girl means anything to you than you need to talk to her. Tell her that you care about her and you are worried about how things have been. Maybe she feels that you dont care for her........girls like attention and if she isn't getting it from you, she could be getting it from someone else.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe she just needs space...I think that you should go over there and speak to her, ask her if she wants to continue this relationship because you can see that she is pulling away and you don't know why.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Could be a lot of reasons. An obvious one is that she is giving you the fade. You need to meet with her to discuss openly. No point guessing. Good luck.

  • 4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Before you jump into conclusions is best to talk to her and find out what’s bothering her.

    Hope everything go’s well

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe its something that ur not doing

    just talk to her...its ur decision

    find out whats wrong before she gets to the mad stage

    but try to find out

    when shes upset just ask her whats wrong

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