how can i show him i like him and how do i get him to trust me?

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My boyfriend and i just started going out and already we have been arguing about the whole trust issue. its hard for me to trust someone because i know how easily it is to be tempted (i used to cheat a lot when i was younger) and now he's afraid that i will cheat on him. i know i wont because i have grown up and realized that it was very wrong but he still thinks i will. how do i get him to trust me and show him that i like him and that he's the only one??

Jennifer R · Answer

Having been the green eyed monster myself I can say this is a difficult situation for both of you. I met my boyfriend when he was still married. Needless to say I had a difficult time completely trusting him because of this even though he gave me no reason whatsoever to not trust him. I can tell you what he did to reassure me and hope these tips might help you. Keep in mind he was incredibly patient!
He reassured me every time I had doubts. Told me how smart, funny, beautiful I was. There was no one else like me, nobody could replace me. He promised to communicate to me if he was unhappy about something or needed something I wasn't giving. He was never inappropriate. Didn't flirt with other girls, was very affectionate in public and behind closed doors. 
At some point this will be out of your hands. If you do all these things and he still has a difficult time it becomes his problem and he will have to ask himself, honestly, will he ever completely trust you. I hope so. Good luck.

Body Technique · Answer

You dont have control over that, it is the individual that naturally does that.  So your efforts will be effortless until he comes around in his own time

Anonymous · Answer

get him infront of a bunch of his guy friends or just guys and start makingout with him that will make him feel really good and he will know you trust him!
best of luck!!

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