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Husband problems please help?
My husband is very very mean to me. I have done everything a woman can possibly do to make him happy. I keep the house spotless, dinner is cooked everynight. His clothes are always clean, i pack his lunches for work. I give him sex anytime he wants it. He has choked me, slaped me, and said beyond hurtful things. He said to me tonight about me and our son " my life is F*&ked because i got STUCK with a *****, and a kid".. This crushed me. and i know everyone is gonna say leave him leave him. But before you judge put yourself in my shoes. I have NO family and when i say NO family i mean NONE! i have been a stay at home mom for 4years, no money of my own and no car to get a job. I have no help in this world and i am trying desperatly to find away out!!!. His is sleeping right now and this is the way i cant find some answers is on the internet...... I just am lost and dont know how to take care of my son on my own..help someone please
3 Answers
- punkyLv 41 decade ago
Go to a shelter. There are shelters in every town I know of. They will assist you with training to get a job and with housing. Get an attorney and file for divorce and get half of everything . Make sure your son is taken care of financially. I was in a abusive marriage for 10 years and left with nothing but my kids. I didn't have but one dollar and I made it with help. If you think it is healthy to stay in that relationship for your child you are sadly mistaken. It will do nothing but get worse get out while you can and make a life for you and your son.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
girl im very sorry but take it from me, you gotta read this **** now: if a man is choking you, slapping you, yelling at you, etc. it's time to leave. if you have no family, maybe you have some girl friends or something? please leave it's for your own good, realize that you are worth more than that, and you don't need that guy..there are many, many good men out there.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Before jumping into something drastic, try to communicate with him when he is willing to talk. Perhaps begin by explaining how you see his life...walk through the day verbally with him being in his shoes. Then explain your own life and your reactions and perceptions on what is occurring throughout the day. Help him understand how you feel. Listen to him when he speaks, and speak calmly.
