did i come off as an ******?

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last night, i texted my girlfriend and asked if she wanted me to call her later. i was working a lot and she was hanging out with some friends so she told me that she would call me. it was about 10:00
and she went to a party at her friends dorm and she got a little tipsy. i still dont know what she did. she's had sex before but i really dont think she would cheat on me. at least i hope she wouldnt
anyways...waited for her call. til about 1:30. then she texted me. and i was kinda harsh. i just said "i hope you are feeling ok, you dont have to call me, get some rest."
and she called me at 2:30. and said it was to say goodnight. i was kinda pissed already cuz i mean...i waited for her call. for like...2 and a half hours. so i just said, "yeah, i wasnt sleeping, just waiting for your call." then me and her said goodnight. she texted me and told me she loves me. and i replied. saying that i love her too. and another goodnight. 
and this morning i texted her a goodmorning, left a message to apologize for being a ****** the night before. and then texted her one more time in the evening to say hi. 
she hasnt returned anything since then. she called me once but i wasnt there to pick up. i called back and she didnt pick up. 
whats up here?

JaneyJ · Accepted Answer

I don't think you were harsh at all. I mean when you said "I hope you are feeling okay, you don't have to call me, get some rest," I thought that was the perfect thing to say. It says for one that you're a bit upset (not wanting to really talk at the moment), but it says that you care about her. Asking how she is and making sure she gets some rest. 

She said she would call, but she didn't. She can't expect you to drop everything and be waiting up for her without you getting upset. She was inconsiderate to you and your reaction was natural. Perhaps she and you just had bad timing trying to reach each other today, try again tomorrow.

I really don't think you stepped over the line. It should be her apologizing to you, but it was very sweet that you did apologize to her.

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