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I give up..i feel like dying right now....can some1 Please please please please help me????????????????

This may seem much more than what you think...I am 15 and i am madly and irrevocably in love with a guy @ school for about 7 years...

(now im in high school) I tried talking to him but still it does not seem to work..and when i heard that he's leaving town, i cried...seriously i cried..

i just cant help it...believe it or not i couldn't sleep for the 1st 3 months because my pillow is wet all night. I tried cutting my hand but still i can't seem to 4get it untill now..well it has been 2 years since he left...

well my point is, can anybody pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssseeeeeee help me.. try 2 understand my position T.T

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    hey..something like this has happened to me before..i kinda know how you feel. it's totally ok though. but just think how many guys are out there..and how you've made him that special guy..but he doesnt even know! does he have a myspace or a facebook? maybe you can find him and add him and start talking to him and say "hey i remember you!" or something lik that.. i'm sorry you're so depressed and his leaving has made you like this..but just hang in there. if you really want him, look up the law of attraction and watch "the secret"...you have to believe that if he's the one, he will come back. maybe not anytime soon...(you never know) but he just may come back if you believe he will. just look it up :) the only reason i say that is because i know from experience. and it's crazy! so you can do that...but i'm glad i got over that guy a few years ago..b/c if i didnt, i wouldnt have met my wonderful boyfriend that i have today. so this is up to you hun. maybe try talking to a counselor?

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like you're really having a hard time. It hurts a lot to lose someone you care about and I can only imagine the kind of pain you must be feeling.

    You won't believe this, but time does heal all wounds, and things that feel world-shatteringly important at fifteen are gone like so much dust in the wind by the time you're 20. Don't make any life-changing decisions over this. Try and believe me: it will pass.

    More important: cutting is not an answer. It is dangerous and it will not help you forget. In fact, it will almost certainly just make the feelings worse. Stop cutting if you can. If you can't, seek help. It's a very bad habit to get into and you will be much better off if you just stop.

    Even more important: Cutting is a bad habit. Suicide is a permanent mistake that can't be gone back from. I'm hoping that when you say you want to die, you're expressing how hurt you're feeling instead of an actual suicidal wish. If it is real, however, seek help NOW. Remember, suicide is a permanent answer to a temporary problem, and there are people who can help you get through this terrible time without making any decisions you'll regret.

    When I say seek help: a school counselor is a good choice, or your family doctor. There are a number of teen helplines out there you can call: you can probably find posters all over the walls of your high school. In all likelihood, however, your parents would be the very best choice, but I know that when you're fifteen, your parents are the probably last people you'll spill personal details to. But any one of the folks I just mentioned will be able to help you get the help you need to get through this dark time.

    And if it's an emergency (like if you feel you're really going to kill yourself tonight), don't hesitate to go to the emergency room. They can help too.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm sorry to hear you are suffering so much. You obviously cared for him a great deal.

    However, people can become stuck in an emotion. This is often due to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I'm not saying that this is what you have, the important thing to do is to get unstuck. How do you do this? You can run - the body is great at burning up emotional stress. You could go to therapy, or start looking at other guys. Pretty soon you'll find one you're interested in. Keep the faith. Your life will get better.

    Source(s): Aging hippie
  • 1 decade ago

    You have to belive in life and faith.... if he is the one for you just stay on track keep working through life and some day when you least expect it he will come back into your life.. believe me it has happened to me.

    And even if when he does come back in your life you have to remember that you don't need him, you lust him... Hurting yourself, cutting yourself.. do you really think he would like that? That is more of a turn off for a guy then a turn on.. guys are for the most part stress free they like to take it easy with no drama... your all about the drama... get over him.. put away the blades and move on... believe me there are many more beautiful guys out there and one of them will sweep you off your feet someday.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    U lukn at the past too much. Lord knows how many guys u missed out on by obessing bout dis guy. U shud jus enjoy da now listen to the birds chirpin get to knw to new people in other words live.

  • 1 decade ago

    I usually do not comment on questions but after reading yours I felt the need to do so. I understand that you are in love with this guy and you want to be with him but sometimes what we want in life is not always what God wants for us.

    Why waste your tears on someone who won't even talk to you? even more why take your life for someone who does not recognize your existence? There is someone out there for you and you may not even realize it because you have entangled yourself in a web of depression and anxiety over someone else.

    It's time for you to dry your tears and move on with life. We've all been heart broken before, it's what comes with life. The challenge is overcoming it and moving on. Use what you learned from this heart-break as a stepping stone to get you to bigger and better things.

    On a more serious note, you should talk to an adult about your feelings of suicide. You may need to seek professional help. It may be available to you through your school or health insurance coverage.

    I hope that things work out for you.

    Source(s): Grad-School Guidance Counselor in training
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hun, I would tell your parents right away. This is serious. You need to see a psychiatrist right away. This could get really serious.

  • 1 decade ago

    let it go

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