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what does this dream mean?

I was upstairs in my kitchen and my boyfriend and his ex were in the basement at my house. and as soon as i started walking down the stairs he turns the corner when i got down there and goes something like "im sorry" i cant remember exactly. but then i had said "tim, no....please....no" and he said "yes, i didnt mean to, she kissed me" and we had both started crying and i had tried to kiss him in the dream but it was hard knowing what had just happened. and he kept saying he loves me and that hes sorry. then she walked out with a big smile on her face. i was outta breathe from crying and i had tried saying to ashley "dont ever talk to me again" and i smacked her right across the face.

i know that he would never cheat on me. im with him 24/7 except for when hes at work.

Update:

and dont say that he has time to cheat on me. cause he DOESNT. he works nights. and im with him all day when hes sleeping. he picks me up in the mornings when he gets off work from the time he GOES to work

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  • 1 decade ago
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    *Hey, girl, cool down. It was only a dream. It wasn't real life.

    The dream apparently indicates that you are insecure in your relationship with him and that maybe you feel threatened with his past relationship with his ex. That can be for a lot of reasons. Could of course be that you worry that he still loves her or has feelings for her. Could mean that you subconsciously feel you're competing to be as good as she was to and with him. Could mean that you just love him so much that you are so scared of losing him and this dream came about just as a reminder of that, meaning nothing else at all.

    Because you had that dream, that doesn't at all mean that he IS cheating on you --- unless you declare that you are a psychic. ha ha. It's just a dream of insecurity that you subconsiously feel about your relationship with him. It could have merit or it could be totally unfounded. It's now up to you to think about and decide which it is. You've gotta think about is there anything that he does or says or that you feel insecure about that is making you have this kind of dream. If it's not him that's doin' anything to make you feel that way and you realize or decide it's just you feeling that way for no reason, then hold on to your hat and come back down to earth. Be sure not to treat him as though he IS doin' something wrong, ya know? That will be the quickest way to make him run away from you if there's no basis for your claims.

    If there IS somethin' goin' on that is out in the open and apparent between them that makes you feel somethin' is no right, then talk to him about it. If he loves you like you love him, then he will listen and be willin' to reassure you that he loves you and his "X" is just that. If he stumbles in his words when answering you, maybe then you gotta dig deeper. But, I don't thing that will be the case. I think it's just a dream and nothin' else. We all have those kinds of dreams now and then.

    Hey, sometimes dreams just suck and should be ignored.

  • 1 decade ago

    The dream began with you in the kitchen, a place where typically people eat & socialize and which might symbolize love and satisfaction and having needs met.

    Then you went DOWNstairs to the basement -a lower level.

    There you felt emotions that were a mixture of disbelief, hurt feelings, a desire to kiss & make up, unhappiness, anger and tears of frustration.

    You were outraged, infuriated! So much so that you could barely breathe. You hit her ... but I wonder ... what is the action that could be seen as a slap in the face? That could symbolize a wrong done.

    Either he has done something to you or you've done something that, if he knew about it, would hurt your boyfriend.

    I don't know what, if anything, has happened between you and him. Maybe you have done nothing to hurt him or that would cause you to feel ashamed.

    Your dream is processing some feelings or conflicts that have not been expressed.

    How are you feeling about your boyfriend?

    Wishing and hoping that you still love him, but not really sure that you do? Feeling your relationship has deteriorated or gone downhill?

    Are you feeling undecided or conflicted?

    I tend to think that the entire cast of characters in your dream represent you. Perhaps you are the one who is considering cheating on him. Perhaps there is an ex in your life who belongs to someone else now. Perhaps he has kissed you and your dream reveals your fear that one thing may lead to another until you actually do betray your boyfriend.

    No I don't think he has cheated on you.

    But for some reason, there are conflicted feelings that have surfaced in your dream.

  • Aziz
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Yeah this is not a big deal but it just shows me few things about him like lying to you sometimes and you never know about it and some emotions going on in his mind. He hasn't yet done anything though. Once you dream of him having sex, then let me know. I'll interpret it for you. That would be your Search Warrant.

  • 1 decade ago

    even though you know he would never cheat on you, it seems you are still subconsciously worried about it or you are just contemplating the possibilities if something like that did happen. it sounds like a normal dream that any girlfriend with a guy who has an ex may have

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  • 1 decade ago

    generally a dream like this means one of two things:

    one could be that you don't trust either him or his girlfriend yet,

    or second, it could mean that you have low self confidence.

    i wouldn't be worried about him cheating because it was just a dream, but i would be worried about being paranoid. if you get too paranoid about him cheating on you, he may just leave.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    try dream interpretation .com.

    then find the page that tells you all of the meanings for every little thing in your dream.

    it worked for me, hopefuly youll find what your lookin for.

    :)

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe your insecure about her not him. maybe you just need to get some leftover anger out subconsciously. talk to him about it. maybe something about her has been bothering him that you subconsciously picked up. good luck.

    id love it if you looked at my question really quick?

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoGsb...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it means that you got stoned the night before...

  • 1 decade ago

    it's probably you think he's cheating. or your jealous?

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