how do i ask out a guy i like or get him to ask me out?

Listen, this boy seems to like you, but here are some tips on asking out boys.

1. If hes shy, than he might ask you if he could think about the awnser, that happened to me, and as a dummie, i said ok. DONT DO THIS! If he says if he couldthink about it hes doing this so he can think of an exuse. Say to him sweetly, "no, can i have an awnser now, please".

This will help him.

2. This has nothing to do with your question(well, a little bit). When your in class/work/collage, during whatever, have you ever caught him staring at you? Like, if you have ever started to stare back, than he doesent break eye contact, has that ever happened. This could mean he likes you.

3. Remember, when you do eventually ask him out, dont blurt it out in a mumble and mess of nonsense ask him sweetly if he could come to talk to you in private, like behind the building. If you ask in front of his mates he will be so embarrassed he will most probably say no, so get in private, make sure none of your friends are around either, they are a definite passion killer.

4. Remember, boy mature slower than girls, if he says no, dont go home in a mumbleing mess of tears. He might not be feeling the emotions get, and puberty might not of even kicked in yet, so he may still be a little bit immature about the situation. unless he is sensible, of course.

5. Like he may be maturing slower, he does seem to like you. I asked out a boy and he took 2 days to deside.. and then even the he gave me a mixed awnser- "i dont think your right for me". Hes STILL flirting with me and doesnt lay a finger on any other girl, let alone flirt with them.

Some boys can be all over you 1 day and the other, totaly avoid you.

hope this helps.]

Break a leg! :)

shambie xxxx

i have the same problem, except me and the guy are friends, and ive had a boyfriend before...sorry

i think you should make the first move not him it would also show him you are the confident one in the relationship so he will get jealous and he will try to be the confident one. i was once in the same problem

the secret is in the way you look and smile at him,

and you have to find it by yourself to get a positive result.