i hate my dad...& he hates me?

Wow, I was in a really ridiculously similar situation with my dad when I was younger. We hated each other and he called me a b*tch all the time and he was a total drunk.

But it all worked out in the end. I'm an adult now and I love my father soo much, more than anyone else in my family. Give it time. Write him out of your life for a little while, and then maybe after some time apart, you can start to respect each other again.

This is not your real father. Our Lord Jesus is. I am very sorry you have a mean father and boy when he meets the Lord when he dies he better look out. God will have him pay the consequences. You need to talk to your Mom and to your school counselor about it. You can't deal with this alone. I would even call Social Services if you have to. Call Teen Hotlines. They can guide you.

Sorry hun, I don't think your relationship is going uphill any time soon. I would talk to your mom about it if she's good at dealing with this kind of stuff, if not try to go to a friends house after school so you don't have to be around your dad.

Good luck!

Get out! I used to have a dad like that. Its been 15 years since i moved out but i tell you, these men never change unfortunaly. he needs help!

talk to you mom, tell her how you feel. Tell her you hate him being there and you feel abused. Call the police, get a protection order, so if he hits u next time (and i think he may

) he will go to jail!

well girl

i kno how ou feal i am 14 and my mom get totally messed up

on drugs and we allways used to argue

and she just e like you stupid b*tch go to your room

and play with your dols or something

many peoples mom and dads are like that

all i can say is that you should try to make things work

when you kno he is drunk dont tlk to him

if he starts yelling just go to ur room

Girl if he tries to hit you then that is over the line you need to tell someone at school or somehting

because if you do not tell someone he will think that

it is okaii

and kep on doing

so just be carefull

plz girl

i kno what it is like

It is simple easy.

Here is what you can do : analyse his personality through he astrological sign .through his sign you will learn about what bother and please your dad. If he is a Virgo , he hates being criticised..etc

Good luck

the only thing i can think of is not fight when he wants to fight just let it go and maybe it will get better. talk to your mom about him being there at her place. why does he have a key?

this is seriously not healthy for a family, you should maybe try counseling. =/

i know how you feel, i wish you the best of luck =)

even if u havent done anything wrong try apologizing to him say "if ive done anything to make u mad ever, then im sorry i just wanna have a better relationship with you dad"

sounds like you need a restraining order against your father