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IS she not a virgin anymore?

Salaam all,

My friend asked me this q, and i don't know how to answer her.Maybe you can help.It's as follows:

SHe's a virgin and she wanted to have sex with her bf , but then changed her mind she want to wait until marriage, the right thing to do.

But, she and her bf got carried away, and he put his head of his penis kind of in her, then felt it's sore and just pushed him away.and ran.

There clearly was no penetration.

Is she still a Virgin??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Whether or not she is a virgin isn't nearly as important a question as to if she's doing what she is supposed to be doing.

    Protecting your virginity is NOT the goal of a good Muslimah. A good woman avoids any POSSIBILITY of doing something improper, which she is clearly NOT doing.

    Ask yourself this: do you think her husband, if he is a virgin when they get married, will just not mind that she fooled around with men? Of course he will, virgin or not!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Many People argue differently and it is all a point of view.

    some people say that once the Contact is made it counts but very few people believe this

    the most common view is when penetration is made and one of them reaches a climax

    some say it is when both climax.

    I believe it is once the penis is inserted inside the vagina and the first few thrusts are made

  • S@gi
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Dear Friend,

    If she is Muslim, she have done a SIN, but if she not Bleed, and not having some Up and Down Shots, Complete Penetration, might she is safe.

    Regards

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hm, so she is worried about her virginity? And not the magnitude of the sin?

    If she is from one of those muslim countries with the wicked cultures she is in for a big shock on her wedding night.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Poor girl. I suppose this is the grey area if it can actually exist when it comes to sexual intimacy. Personally I think yes. She didn't actually have sex with him. Once she has a sexual relationship she'll know how completely different it is than what you've described.

  • 1 decade ago

    anatomically, she is a virgin (intact hymen). but according to islam if the part called "glans penis" (head of penis) has went completely inside her, this is considered fornication. i don't see contradiction in it! situation is clear. she is guilty even if she still have an intact hymen!

  • 1 decade ago

    In my knowledge Islam does not give any importance to piece of flesh called hymen.

    What is important in Islam is chastitiy and Modesty. Her act of allowing him to go to that extent indeed is wickedness and violation of chastity and modesty.

    That's end of the story.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah, she's a virgin

    There was no sex going on, **** the technicalities

    You wouldnt call someone who barely scratched the paint off of another car, a car crash would you?

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Physically she might still be a virgin, but spiritually she isn't.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She's not. She intended to do it, and thats just as bad. She shouldn't even be having a bf, let alone going that far.

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