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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Keeping Their Attention.... need your opinions?

once your dating someone how do you keep their attention

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    talk about things that interest you both. remember tht guys enjoy listening to what u have to say but give a guy some room to talk. :) Guys have feelings to. So help a guy through what he feels to. Every one thinks guys are all big and strong and dont have feelings. Tho this may be true all guys have their weak moments. Keep him close to you and he'll help u through tough times to! :)

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Be unpredictable and a bit mysterious! Here are some suggestions on how to do it. Don't always answer the phone when he calls. Only call back if they leave a message. Rarely, if ever call them. Invite them over for dinner and a movie one week and be quite busy the next. Stroke their ego often but be sincere. In other words, it's not necessary to stroke the ego ad nausiam (sp?) and don't tell them they are tall if they are short. They know the difference between BS and "sincerity". Never ever insult their manhood! If you don't like the way the kiss or stroke, try to covertly teach them what you like or move on. Don't become needy. Men like independent women but they also like to feel needed. This is a delicate balance. Occasionally, have a previous engagement when they ask you out or want to come over, especially if they ask you out short notice. Don't give an explanation as to your prior plans. Just say you have plans and if you don't get home to late you'll call or you'll call them tomorrow. I know this is bad, but sometimes when the guy I date comes over (never unannounced either - one of my rules), I'll hang my sexy nightie in the bathroom. The one I always wear when he comes over to stay the night. It makes him think. Occasionally, I'll leave my "d!ck deterrent kit" on the bathroom counter. if you're wondering, it's a pkg of monostat and box of tampons. (BTW, he knows what the "kit" is and used for). This way, he thinks someone's been over that wants to get into my pants. Mostly, they work and keep a guy interested. When it doesn't, oh well. I don't think anything would have worked to keep him interested. Maybe, the guy is just not "into me". I try not to take it personal. I tell my self, "No big deal, some guys I'm not into either". All my suggestions require balance. Don't play to hard to get or to easy to have. If you're not really interested in the guy, don't fu$k with their emotions to prove a point. Move on. If I'm not into a guy, I don't try to keep him interested so the above does not apply. Play, but play nice!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you're dating them in the first place, shouldn't you have enough chemistry/mutual adoration to not need to TRY super hard to keep their attention?

    That said, I guess little things that show that you're still interested in him and appreciate him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well i asked my guy friend the other day, and hes been with his gf for almost 2 years and i said like how do u keep her attention, how do u not get tired of talking with her and being with the same person. and i thought he gave me a cute answer, he said you will know what it's like when you finally have what i have, you dont have to worry about keeping their attention, or becoming bored, or not being able to think of things to say etc b/c its like they are your best friend and more. i think thats prolly true, and its cute

    hope it helpss!

    xox

  • 1 decade ago

    Just Showing them attention. When i had my girlfriend- I wasn't like give me attention or anything..but I completely LOVED it when i just got attention...even small as when she would just rub my back....to even big things as....she actually asking me if we can go out....just showing attention.....the base of keeping attention....is showing attention.

  • 1 decade ago

    When you are ready let him see your body without clothes on. That will make him pay a lot of attention to u.

  • 1 decade ago

    keep it fun by trying new things.. and going new places. dont just keep with the ordinary kiss on the cheek.. give him a hard out pash hahaha

  • Rae.
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Be spontaneous. Switch up how you kiss him. Go to new places on dates.

  • 1 decade ago

    go places with the person. find fun stuff to do and just try to make both of u happy...but dont be boring n pushy...it gets annoying

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