I need your advice should I go back to my boyfriend's house or not? His Rude Mother!? PLEASE READ PLEASE!?

In some cases I would say stay there and stand firm because if you leave she thinks she won... but in this case you don't need to go back to that house. stay with your boyfriend but not with him and his parents. his mother was way over the line when she threatened you, and you don't need to be in that kind of household. explain to your boyfriend that you need to stay with your mom for a few days while you and his mom cool off. Try to sit down like adults and have a discussion about why she's been acting this way. if she blows you off and acts uninterested in fixing the problem then don't pursue it further. get all your things and stay with your mom. because if you stay with him and his parents more drama is going to start.

*Question* Can you and your boyfriend possibly move in with your parents or can you and him get your own place?**

I would ask your boyfriend's mom out to coffee or lunch and have a real talk about what's going wrong. Don't tell her she's wrong about everything; ask why she doesn't seem to like you and honestly listen to what she says. Even if she's completely wrong, tell her you never intended her not to like you and, if there's something specific and easy to fix, that you'll try not to do that again. Tell her you just love her son and you really want a strong relationship with his mother. These talks can really create a bond between two people if it goes well, and at the very least you can find out what's wrong.

It also might not be a bad idea to stay with your mom until you and your boyfriend can get a place of your own. I don't know if that's feasible but it's a thought.

Sabrina let me tell you something thats not your home and your boyfriend needs to man up and get a place you can call home .thats if he wants you to come home she does not make you feel welcomed and thats not right what goes on between you and her son is the two of you business not hers she's being a *** do not go back tell him if he really loves you then he'll get a place for you and him then you'll be glad to come back arrangements like that never works so stop kidding yourself its time for you to put your foot down your not happy living like that and why should he be happy and not you ?Your not being fair to yourself sabrina i don't care if its a shack and no one likes it tell him to move out and you'll move in she wants to fight you thats serious and she might really wants you out the reason she treats you this way peole have a wy of saying things with their actions and not the mouth take this advice sabrina i know you miss him and love him but show sabrina some love and do not go back 'good luck

I don't have much experience with things like this, but it sounds to me like you are just causing more problems there then solving them.

If you want to keep your relationship with your boyfriend strong and healthy, getting into fights with his mother isn't a good idea. Could you consider asking him to move into your mothers house with you? Or possibly getting an apartment together?

I know both of those are huge steps, but I don't think moving back in with his mother would be a safe, happy, and healthy situation for any of you. The stress of having his girlfriend fight with his mother will inevitably put stress on your relationship as well.

If I were you, I wouldn't.

Yeah, I have advice. Don't go back. What's more you need a different boyfriend. Been together 5 yr. and living with his mom most of that time?

Need to grow up.

He wants you to come back to that environment? He must not really care about you.

50 yr. old guy here.

Her behavior is unacceptable. It's obvious she doesn't want you there.

If I were you, in your exact situation, I would stay at your moms house for a little while like you are. You really deserve peace and quiet and not to be yelled at and called stuck up.

I can't imagine why his mom would act like that unless you are really doing something wrong but maybe she's just really mean and jealous of you.

have a family sit down with your boyfriend and his parents. this is ridiculous. there is NO reason why she should be treating you this way. none at all. your boyfriend chose you. he didn't chose his parents. have you 2 discussed maybe getting an apartment? she needs to realize that your relationship is just that, she needs to stay the hell out of it. i had a situation similar to that one. it was only for a couple months. but it did get that bad, if not worse. i ended up going back to switzerland, and breaking up with him. im happily married now, not to him. so it was what was best for us, however...it seems you and him should stay together. i suggest that you try the sit down, or flat out get your boyfriend to stand up to her. because he shouldn't allow that kind of behavior towards you from ANYONE, even his own mother. that's just downright unacceptable.

You cannot go back there. You have to respect a person in their own house, so if you are not there you don't have to worry about it. That is out of line for an adult to act like that, if she didn't want you there she should have asked you to leave.

You don't have to break up with your boyfriend, but he has to understand why it is not healthy for you to be there.

If you can't afford your own place to be, stay with your mom . Do not go back to that house because yo are going to ruin your life. The lady is tired of seen you there. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will do whatever for you and to be with you...

looks to me you could have a place of your man or woman. not your mom's, not your bf's mom, not the guy down the line's 2nd cousin's residing house: woman, get a existence and a place of your man or woman! in case you flow back there, there will be violence. You stayed too lengthy and so did he. If it is your residing house, you pay the charges and you're making the regulations. as a results of fact it truly is her residing house, she gets to make the regulations. it's time to advance up and end taking part in residing house in somebody else's residing house.