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Stan
Lv 6
Stan asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Charging money to attend a party?

I have some friends who host an annual Halloween party at their home.

In the last few years, they have hired a caterer, entertainment, and a bartender, and they have asked each guest to pay $10 (minimum) up front. This includes, open bar (frozen rum drinks, and beer)

I've gotten in arguments with my wife because I feel it's the utmost in bad manners to host a party and charge your friends admission.

Other parties, everyone brings a dish, and byob, but it's never a requirement. If we need a beer run, it's 'pass the hat'..etc.

We've had great parties, with live music, because many of my friends are musicians, and it's bring what you want, but please attend, and there is never a cover charge.

This couple also has very expensive Halloween decorations....spiders the size of a small car..etc, and by paying them an admission fee, I feel I'm also helping to pay for their decorations.

Of course, I've been to bashes in the Summertime, where it might be $10 dollars for live music and all the beer you want just to cover expenses, and make sure the band gets paid, but that's different in my view.

Is this an acceptable practice, or the utmost in bad manners to host a party and then charge your friends admission?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I feel it is rude. Especially charging 10 dollars, that's way too much anyway. I think if they want to spend all their money to please guests at a party, they shouldn't expect money in return, they should just have fun. It sounds like a snobby family, no offense, but to charge people money to attend a party sounds like they have their heads up in the clouds for expectations. I would tell your wife this, and wouldn't attend the party.

  • pink
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    When I was in high school they would charge $10 to get into a party and you would still have to bring your own alcohol. If it's a classy party then I don't see money being acceptable. Ask the guests to bring the drinks of their choice and then handle the rest.

  • 1 decade ago

    it depends if ur gonna charge for the drinks if u are then don't charge for admission if u aren't then only charge $5.00. $10.00 too much.

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