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my friends are such bores!!!!?
seriously i'm not one of theee people who needs to live every moment to the max but i wanna experience life and have a laugh.
i wanna go to gigs and to shows and to parties. yet i struggle to bring me friends to the cinema. i mean it we went clubbing and they sat down all the time i ended up dancing on my own, same at the prom.
i'm seriously gonna start ditching them, well doing more stuff with other people, but it's hard to get any one mtivated about anything. and it's not like they're skint i earn the least out of all of us, i just manage my money, and if i know i'm going out i save some. does anyone else feel like this. anyone have any tips.
katie, i think if it were up to them we would still be drinking down the beach, never leave our village and sit on MSN all day. whihc for 18 year olds is sad.
drinking on the beach with 14 year olds. lol. thanks guys i'm kinda putting the feelers out to some of my not so close friends seeing if they wanna do more stuff.
nd i have had a chat to a couple of them explaining what frustrates me and weve decided to compromise. if we go to a gig thats my fav band, i promise to go next time there fav band comes then we get twice the fun wud have ny way like but at least they know now, lol.
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I know what you mean im in the same boat. how can you enjoy your life when there is no one who wants to join you? maybe you need to expand on your social circle?or go out on your own and meet new mates who are into the same things you are? all you can do is try with your existing mates :(
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Some friend you are, bitching about them to the online world. Try thinking about it from their perspective. They might be shy about dancing around in a club or the cinema might not be their thing. You might like it, but they maybe don't. Ask them what they want to do for a change and let them do what THEY want, rather than doing what YOU want.
You ain't in charge of them, so go of and do your own thing and by the sounds of it they would be greatful if you just left them alone to do their own thing - whatever that may be. Who cares if its 'sad'? If it makes them happier than going clubbing or whatever so be it!
You experience life and have a laugh by doing what makes you happy right? Clubbing makes you happy? Fine do it. But not everyone is like that, and if your mates don't like it then fair enough it doesn't make them boring they just have different tastes!
- 1 decade ago
I kinda know what you mean, make a new group of friends you can drink and have a laugh with, and keep your old friends for other types of fun, you never know one day you might want to go back to drinking on the beach.
- 1 decade ago
You definitely need a new set of acquaintance's. Your friends no longer enjoy those things. Don't hate them. That is just the way they are. You can't change people and people can't change you. Learn to go with the flow and let the Universe guide you. Really..................
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