some gays are effeminate but can they change their behavior and to become totally manly or it's impossible?

Actually theres a good reason WHY gays are effeminate and being a TS ill tell you strait up that the medical community has found my mind to be that of a females mind shape size and synaptically as responsive as a females, Now knowing this and having read the proof did shock me and I did have much doubt, because if TS M2F's have female brains then what about gay guys since I was pretty much just like gay men before i transitioned, well........ Turns out gay men are the same way, And gay women are vice versa in the sense that they have bigger brains and are more acute to the male psychology.

If I didnt know better Id come to the conclusion that gay males have are Superior in intellectual dominance since our brains are largerr than females yet in retrospect are shaped as a females yet use both side, vs a normal heterosexual males which only uses 97% of one part of the brain while 3% other. (the bigger the better)

None the less if your influenced by your surroundings and peers to act the way you do. Can you change the way you act and your behavior, Yes, you can, But deep down the likely hood of you staying in such an indifferent life style is slim to none since eventually you strive back to what makes you more comfortable.

You can't change your mannerisms or personality any more than you can change your eye color. Some people are just more effeminate than others, and frankly, that doesn't even mean anything. I have several straight friends that are more effeminate than I am, and I would be willing to bet that I'm far from the manly end of the gay scale. As far as why manly men don't like you, I doubt your personality has anything to do with that. Masculine guys are just as likely to drool over femmes as they are to drool over anyone else. You shouldn't be worried about attracting people that don't like you anyway. Go after someone that wants you as you are, don't try to pretend to be someone else just to catch the hottie at the bar.

I don't know where you get your information from. I am close friends with several Gay guys, and the one who is my best hunting buddy is about a masculine as you could ask for. He's a former Army Ranger, stands 6 and a half feet tall, benches about 350 and is a really good hunter. Moreover, the few Bi men I've met in my 40 years on the planet thus far have ranged from fairly effeminate to quite masculine, as well. In short, it may be that you're only able to identify effeminate Gay men, and thus have a skewed sense of them as a group.

I know in the past when I was dating guys, I might get drunk and start acting more effeminate. I think I did it for fun in a way. It made me feel good somehow. I think I just felt liberated from having to be a "bloke".

I think it is hard for some people to be anything other than what they are. I agree with Diego619. If you are true to yourself and come to respect yourself, it really doesn't matter whether you are feminine or masculine.

It might be possible for someone to be more masculine if that is what they want to do. I could understand if that gave them a better sense of themselves and felt more at ease being like that.

I do think people are made the way they are. At the end of the day you can choose to try to be more masculine or more feminine. It's probably better to be yourself.

personally i think the effeminate guys do that because they get caught up in the stereotype of being gay. also to show others that they are gay, kinda like a beacon for other gay guys to notice them. i am not effeminate, but i do it when i wanna act silly. i can turn it off and on. that may just be me, but i think it is a choice. mannerisms have nothing to do with your sexual orientation.

When I'm at work I play it manly - and 75% of the time when I'm with my friends I can act REALLY campy.

I think it depends on how you are inside and how you identify with yourself. Nothing wrong with being feminine or masculine as long as you are true to yourself and a good person.

I'ts social conditioning. Just hang out with Macho crazy types. Join the Marines or something.

Mr T is a 'manly' gay.

I think of it more as a matter of natural selection--some birds have very bright feathers to attract a mate, some have more muted tones.

my classmate for one...he was way to girly...i met him not so long ago...i swear he looks and acts like Terminator...it looks very and very natural...

they say to change the habits it takes 3 months...try acting manly, maybe it will fixed as your original behaviour...

I think I already give you some advice about this in your other question.