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How do I feel about her?
So, basically the situation is this.
I've been going out with this girl for about a month now and I still don't know how I feel about her. I'm an extremely emotionally detached person and I can't convince myself that I don't need her, and also I can't convince myself that I love her beyond all reason of a doubt. The one thing I do know for sure though is that I like her more than any other girl I've known, the only problem with that comparison is that I haven't even remotely liked... anyone really.
So, I'm just wondering how can I really get involved with her, and know either way if I love her or I don't, or if there's any simple way to convince myself that I do love her that would be great, because I'm sure she has feelings for me as well.
6 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
To me you can not really love someone after only a month of knowing them, It seems like you have or could have strong feelings for this girl, and I do not think that you should break up with this girl, but I also do not think you should drag this girl and get her more emotionally involved than she already is, However, it seems to me like you could have a meaningful relationship with this girl, so I would just stick with it and see where it goes... I hope I helped with your question.
- 1 decade ago
Theres nothing simple bout feelings
Its only been 1month, your not gunna feel the fealing of live for a while
You like her more than any other girl youv been with and thats enough to stay with her
Those fealings will come
Answer mine
Source(s): I'm the same emotionally detached person - 1 decade ago
Well we know tha if you haven't felt love for her yet then, you don't love her. Now if you like her and you know you feel something, then spend more time with her and let your feelings come natural. If she pops the "I love you" before you do, then make sure its what you feel before you say it back, becasue thats the worst thing to do is act like you love someone when you don't.
- 1 decade ago
when you love her, you'll know.
it's just how the universe works.
spend time with her
get to know her on a personal level
be her best friend
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
love takes times...
As you hang out with her more you will relize if you do like her as a lover or as just a friend.....just wait
