is this considered cheating? or am i being naive?

I know if that was me, I deffinetely wouldn't trust her and it would just be nagging the back of my mind constantly. If i found my girlfriend doing the things you mentioned, I would be rid of her pretty quickly. I can't see how she can be in other guys beds and not doing anything, especially if drunk. Also, giving her number out to guys as well.... I would finish her, can't be trusted in my opinion.

You sound like a good guy! You need to find a new girl. I have a friend that just went through somehting like this....he got his heart broke. Now he is kinda a jerk to girls because he is afraid of getting his heart broke again. He just broke up with the perfect girl..she was great. But he could see it, he pushed her away as soon as he felt any emotion.

I don't want to hear you become untrusting and suspicious because of where I see this going.

Break up now, before you are hurt and you don't trust your feelings anymore...There are good girls out there. If a guy friend came to you with this problem you will tell him "dude, she is cheating" everyone on the outside sees it, it is harder to see from the inside...so take my advice...lost the baggage!

Okay, stop! If you think that it's not okay for her to sleep over at guys' dorms then it is NOT okay. Let her know that you don't feel comfortable with it and that she should take this into consideration. You're not trying to MAKE her stop but she should consider your feelings. To me, it is definitely not okay. I don't think I'd be with her but that's between you two.

Your ex-girlfriend thing: I'm a pretty jealous person so I would not like that either but if you've been loyal so far, it should be okay. Okay maybe not but what she's doing is just way out of line. (That's just my opinion)

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Okay that really is cheating. I'm dissapointed, you should be to. Break up with her.Its retarded that she lets other guys in her bed!!! Shes supposed to be YOURS not like with 5 other men. What are you going to do when she comes back with a child thats NOT yours?

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Sounds like neither one of you are ready for a relationship. Let go and go have fun. You don't have to have a girlfriend - makes it easier in the long run - no presents, no leashes, no pressure - just chill out!

Yep, her sleeping with another guy in the same bed is cheating...I also find it hard to believe that they did not do anything. She sounds like she cant really control herself and is very sex driven.

She is a American gone wild girl! Stay back, brake up with her before she destroysys you forever.

I don't know... that seems weird to me.

She should be sleeping in YOUR bed with YOU.

And staying at YOUR house.

u r getting cheated on. trust me! if u were to give her a lie detector test she would fail (badly)

i wouldn't trust her

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