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what should i do! i need advice! help!?

so there's this guy, and I've liked him for a while now. i told him i liked him, and he said he liked me back, but then he never acted like it. a week later, he told me we had nothing "strong" but we could still be best friends. i said okay. these past weeks have been slightly-okay really- awkward for me. then, i was talking to my friend today, and she told me he liked one of my best friends! i was so shocked. i still kinda like him, but i don't know what to do. should i just give up on him because i know nothings going to happen, or should i keep trying?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Let him go, he sounds like he jumped the gun and told two people he liked them and was not expecting both of them to say it back. I would move on. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Okay. Well I would just remain his friend even though you kinda like him. You can't force someone who likes you as a friend to like you in a different way. Guys are the hardest to understand sometimes but you really can't pretend that he will like you more then a friend. If I were you I would wait to see what happens but just remain friends with him for now.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sweetheart you should give up on him because you're right nothing's gonna happen. im sorry it's not just being mean but sometimes you really have to know when to give up on something. even if he told you that he likes you too, but he never acted like it! it also doesn't mean that he can love you, maybe he likes you because you'r cute, sweet, honest and whatever reasons he has but you can never be special for him. besides you learned that he also like one of your best friend right? so let it go, dont make your life miserable! bec it also happened to me, he liked me and he liked my friend and everything screwed up! see? life is too short sweety! have fun meet other guys.. dont waste your time in that guy who doesnt even show you that he really liked you. take care!

  • 1 decade ago

    you really should keep trying until it is obvious you have no chance for all you know he might not of meant what he said, its not like you have much to loose if these past weeks were awkward being good friends anyway

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you know that nothing is going to happen then you should probably give up on him. Find a better guy.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The best of relationships start with ---- being friends.

    Give it a try, just be a friend, it's not an either or factor.

  • 1 decade ago

    give up. hes not worth the heart ach.. i know girl like a guy that dont like them back but what i do is say to myself im not chassing after nobody . and i dont either.

    tips

    never call the guy first..

    never question him

    dont allow him to question you

    trust until proven otherwise ((real proof))

    and dont let them walk all over you

  • 1 decade ago

    Be patient, he hasn't yet made up his mind. Just continue to remain friends and dont go overboard in trying to impress him as it may 'put him off'. Just be your normal plain self. Wait and watch.

  • TC
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Hi I'm Here,

    OK, so if there is a guy that you are not really interested in... do you want him to "keep trying"????

    I didn't think so.

    - Charlie

  • 1 decade ago

    u should just get over him and let yur friend be happy b/c it obviously wouldnt have worked out bwtweeen yall two

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