When in a marriage, what constitutes 'harmless fun' with other parties?

There is no such thing as harmless fun. You are not 10 any more.

You know.. a bit of fondling.. maybe watch a porn or two... some armpit licking... stuff like that is pretty harmless in my little book of want.

I know where you are heading with this bebe. Really, a little bit of harmless fun leads to a little taste of infidelity.. leading to a full on dirty rotten love nest on the side.... which you find ways to justify.

Whoever said sex isn't important in a marriage doesn't know what is going on in their marriage!

When you're married there is no such thing as "harmless fun with other parties". Keep it in your pants buddy or file for divorce. It's that simple.

fred sanford always said: 'i was the only one doing the driving'.

i suspect you are of the same mind as fred sanford. you want to be the only one driving. this is normal.

most men do not want another man sniffing around his wife. that sucker might want to do more than sniff.

No such thing! Why be married if you want another playmate? Grow up!

Flirting with the knowledge and approval of spouse.

unless you both approve. NOTHING