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what do i do if my bf keeps wanting me too french him and im scared too what do u suggest to me?

Update:

ok i have kissed him be 4 and i told him i was scared to do it and he keeps on saying why and i keep on telling him idk but he just says ok and he says i wont make u and then the next day when i just give him a peck he says thats it and i say yes and he says ok sounding sad what should i do??

Update 2:

ok i have kissed him be 4 and i told him i was scared to do it and he keeps on saying why and i keep on telling him idk but he just says ok and he says i wont make u and then the next day when i just give him a peck he says thats it and i say yes and he says ok sounding sad what should i do??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First off, if you don't want to do it, then don't. You don't have to just because he wants to. But if you DO want to and just don't know how to...then realize it's not that big of a deal. I remember when my bf kept trying to when we started dating. We were both clueless, and every time he attempted it, I would start laughing. Poor guy, I'm sure he was already nervous! Haha. But anyway, just have fun with it. If both of you guys suck at it, then don't worry, you'll learn. And if he happens to actually know what he's doing and you are clueless...and scared you might look stupid...then don't worry about that either. If HE'S the one who wants to play tonsil hockey, then he has no right to complain about you not being very good at it yet! Lol. But yeah, just have fun with it!!! BUT ONLY IF YOU'RE READY!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should never feel pressured into something you don't want to do. That said, there is nothing to fear about french kissing. It feels good and is not a high risk activity. Explain to him that you're hesitant to french him, but willing to have him tell you why it would mean so much to him. Then, reconsider giving it a try. I think you'll find it is a very pleasurable thing and you can't get pregnant from it so there's not much to worry about.

  • 1 decade ago

    The first thing is that you should tell him that you are scared and that you would like more time before you do this. The fact of the matter is that you should never be forced to do something that you are not comfortable with, and anyone who cares for you will understand and respect this. Take it slow, and do what you feel is right for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is scary, huh? You never know if you're going to do it right, if he's going to do it right. What if you don't like it? Will he think you're weird? What if he tastes bad? What if he thinks you taste bad?

    Well here's the deal.. none of that matters! Honestly, chances are you will not be with this boy forever [I'm assuming you're pretty young]. Just start out slow. Open your mouth a little, graze your tongue along his lower lip, then swirl it around his tongue. Good luck!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just take it slow. Start with an open mouth kiss, and just try to explore his mouth with your tongue. Don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, but I mean there are a lot more things to be scared of in this life than having someone's tongue in your mouth.

  • 1 decade ago

    dump him if he starts pressuring you too much!!!

    If you have already kissed him just open your mouth a little.

  • 1 decade ago

    you will never learn unless you try. and make sure he knows how you feel about it. im sure he'll understand and help you

  • 1 decade ago

    if u dont want to, tell him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it's no big deal really...just do it it's fun.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you don't want to then "DON'T". it's that simple.

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