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Should I call her back?

Here's the situation, my father and I have been fighting for the past few days about a very trivial subject, but as trivial as it may have been it was the primary occupation of my time for the past couple of days. That being said, I haven't talked with my girlfriend for the past couple of days including our 1 month anniversary day.

Today I get a call from her concerned mother making sure everything is alright with me, I tell her that it's just been a rough couple of days and I haven't meant to neglect Arleen in anyway. She then tells me her wonderful step father has convinced her that I've been cheating on her, for what reason this very sad and pathetic man would intentionally attempt to destroy our relationship and ultimately demeen his step daughter I truly do not know.

I talked with her today, earlier and she sounded pretty broken up, I told her what happend and it seems pretty obvious that she's being swayed by her step father at this point, I told her to call me back when she's ready to talk and that was about 6 hours ago, so should I call her back and what should or could I say to better the situation?

Update:

Any suggestions on what I could or should say, I'm really at a loss for words here in a pretty weird place, I can't seem to think straight so any advice would be great.

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  • 1 decade ago

    wow. that's pretty intense. =\

    i think you should call her back.

    normally when i don't call a guy back, i might not be in a good mood.

    well.

    its been 6 hours.

    she could have blown some steam off by now.

    if the calling doesn't work, then go and visit her.

    you need to find a way to prove how much you really love her.

    and avoiding her just might give her the idea you actually DID cheat on her. and you wouldnt want that, right?

    good luck with that. =]

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    don't call her back just yet. give her some time to think over what you have told her, then let her decide what the next move will be. if she is a smart girl she'll do the right thing. hang in there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    CALL HER !! omg !! wow !!

    yuu need to call her so that she noes that you actually care for her( if you do) .. cause then she will see that yu do want to be wiit her..

    ii wuld have thought yu was cheating on me to iif we didnt talk for days.

    ii wuld have been broke up wiit yu byy now.. cause thats really messed up.. iif my bf diid that .. iit wulda been done by now .. SO CALL HER !! LIKE RIIGHT NOW !!!

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