Why do cute guys always like the slutty girls?

Guys do not like slutty girls. We like girls with confidence. But sometimes we misinterpret a girl's sexual openness as confidence.

The best way to counteract this is to be confident. Do not emulate the behavior of those girls. Instead don't be shy, not even a little shy. Your shyness is keeping you from being alluring and intriguing. Shyness makes girls invisible and keeps them off the radar.

From a 39 y/o guy:

I think it's because the 'slutty' ones look like an easier target. Classy girls like yourself may intimidate a guy who is looking for a quick lay, because he doesnt want to invest that much time when there are easier targets.

Stick to your guns, sweetie, guys like that arent the ones you want chasing you anyway. Some equally classy guy will come along and see you as a 'worthy investment'.

Look at it this way: Some guys would pick an average apple off the bottom branch rather than climbing to the top of the tree for a GOOD one....

HANG IN THERE!!! (no pun)

Well shy girl here's the poo....most guys would rather bone the slutty girls because normally their more experienced sexually and they like to hear themselves talk too. The part most of these boys miss out on theres no pressure to perform and it's more intimate with the shy chick. Being a former football player I have had my fair share of both types of these girls and to be honest with you I'd rather do a shy band chick, because once they warm up.......oh baby!!!.

Most guys in high school especially will try to get what they can and as much of it. Its funny cuz I just got off the phone with my EX who happens to now be the same type of guy that your talking about. I too am a very shy not so bad looking girl. I think its funny that guys do try to talk to me but I already know by the first sentence that they think im slutty.. I am in no way shape or form one of those girls but I guess I have the look so who knows. But anyways yeah my ex used to be a nobody in high school. no one really knew who he was until I came along because they would have never thought that someone like me would get with someone like him so all the girls and believe me there was alot of them started giving him lots of attention. More than i could handle so we broke up and he was with a few of them or well maybe more than a few and they would exchange nude pics (which i never did with him) and its been a year now that he finally came to realize that he will never find in any of the girls what he had with me.. We started talking and going out the summer after his sophmore year and he is now a senior in HS and it took him this long to realize that easy girls are just TOO EASY for everyone and not just him.

Dont lose hope though. I met a guy that is out of HS and in college who is the most awesome guy ever. Hes really respectful and well I never thought i would find someone like him from my past experiences with guys. Pretty crazy cause now my ex hates the fact that i have moved on and he messed up badly. If you dont find your guy now believe me they will grow up eventually and know that they went after the wrong girls :)

The slutty girls are easy they'll give it up at the drop of a hat hence the term slutty. Guys figure they don't have to work as hard to get what it is their really looking for. The good girls like you will have a bright future ahead. When your in your late twenty's and shopping at Neiman Marcus while their wearing their sister in laws hand me downs then you'll see just how lucky you are now. Don't stress over it. Do your thing, your prince charming is waiting in the wings. be well;)

Not always. But the guys you've mentioned most of the time only want to "pleasure themselves" for a night or two, and then find someone else. When they grow up a little bit, they'll realize that they should have made some wiser decisions, previously. Don't worry about it. In due time, you'll have someone that will care about you.

@theslayer: "Real beauty is intelligence..."

I say: Real beauty is intelligence and personality.

High school boys are so immature that's why!!..they literally only have one thing on their minds. But even though they are all about trying to hook up with the sluts... in the back of their horny little minds they do respect you for being classy. An one day all the mature successful guys will be drooling all over you because you are a classy woman who has respect for herself...and they will know they aren't sloppy seconds to a bunch of other guys. ( while those slutty trashy girls are in rehab or working at the local quickie mart married to some loser.)

please don't change yourself ever to get one of those guys to like you.

i experianced this whole situation when i was in junior high. it was hard not to fall into the trap, because all the slutty girls were getting the guys attention. but now i'm a junior in high school and those girls that were sluts now are jumping from guy to guy, never in a good relationship. and those guys that used to like them grew up and want something real. of course some guys stayed liking the sluts, but thats just because they are easy.

just don't worry about this and keep being yourself and have fun. having respect for yourself is soo much better than getting a guys attention for a week.

Honey... I'm a 25 year old girl, trust me on this. Guys in high school are horny. I don't care how nice they are, they are HORNY. Plain and simple. Every once in a while, you find an exceptionally mature guy, but that's rare. Just be yourself and know that you're the one that has it goin' on and guys will really appreciate girls like you as they slowly but surely learn that slutty girls are ridiculous!

Be patient. I'm sure you're a catch, no doubt about it! :)

This is a cute little way to look at it

"Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the

tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are

afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten

apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. "

Hang tight girl, you'll find your prince charming. one who is worth your heart :)