getting back together with her? ?

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me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. before we were a couple, we were best friends. 
but she kissed me a while ago and it went from there. and then she broke up with me after about 6 months. she said it was cuz she wasnt being fair to me cuz she had so much going on in college that she was neglecting me. she kinda was. we are still best friends, she said. but i do miss her. 
i dont know if she cheated on me but people have said that she might have. 
but she's still semi-leading me on though. she told me flat out that im the guy who is supposed to kiss her in the rain. (its one of her biggest wishes, to be kissed in the rain). i asked her if i was still the guy that was supposed to. and she said "yes, no one else. just you."
so my questions...
1) do you think she cheated on me? i dont think she did. i hope she didnt. 
2) is there a chance that me and her could work out later on? yes or no. 
thanks

jcoolmom5 · Accepted Answer

Ask yourself if you can live with it if she did cheated?  If your answer is yes then sit down and talk to her.  Give her a free pass on anything that she has done and DONT ask or LISTEN to any of the detals.  You are better off not knowing.  Ask her if she wants to get back together.  This is the most important part NEVER NEVER bring this up again.  Discuss it this one time and dont bring it up again.  The worst thing you can do is everytime that you have an argument throw this in each others face.  Just be sure that you can fully put this behind the both of you.

Alilshy · Answer

its difficult to determine if she cheated on you or not since i personally don't know her and didn't see her reactions etc...

but since you guys were best friends and all I would trust your intuition and gut feeling on it. don't be too insane thinking about this because its possible people misinterpreted her actions (like in TV shows haha) or just making up rumours about her.

and for your second question. if she gave those answers, i'm pretty sure that you and her could work it out later... but understand the words COULD and WORK. its gonna take some time and it might or might not happen..

good luck! hope this helps settle some mind twisting topics.

Anonymous · Answer

idk if she cheated on you but i think it could happen again..but don't always be there because she'll tak advantage of that

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