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My best friends drama... help please?

My best friend Viv always trys to bring me and my boyfriend Taylor into her drama. I'm not good at telling people I want no part in there problems and because i'm in her drama this girl at school Mary hates me because of some of the drama, which is fine because I don't even like Mary but she also hates Taylor because he's my boyfriend. I have no idea what to do. Someone plese help me

Update:

by the way she's my neighbor

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  • Nymph
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You seriously need to tell Viv, firmly but gently that you and your boyfriend would rather have nothing to do with all the drama that keeps occurring and aren't prepared to get involved.

    Forget about Mary. She sounds very judgmental since she hates you for being involved with all the drama and Taylor just because he's your boyfriend. Maybe she's jealous? I think you should definitely ignore Mary. Just be polite and civil if you absolutely must. Other wise pretend she's not even there. Life's too short to get worried about petty dramas.

  • 1 decade ago

    Woww, I take it either the drama has everything bad to do with you and Mary likes Taylor, or she is just a two-faced freak who hates everything to do with you and likes to cause trouble for no reason other than the fact that she has nothing better to do with her time. Just ignore her and don't even go near her. If she tries to come near you in your neighborhood or house, avoid her, tell other people to send messages that you aren't around. As for your friend, give her thoughtful advice and support and hear her out, but warn her that you don't want to plunge in so much that you interfere and encourage her to try and work it out. Your boyfriend can do so too. Let her know how much you appreciate her friendship and try to help her out as much as possible throughout this difficult time, because unlike your relationship with her, this drama will pass easily.

    Best wishes....

    -Sam

    Source(s): dramatic stuff in life
  • 1 decade ago

    just avoid her for awhile until her drama cools down and the coast is clear again to hang out with her

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