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How can i not care about problems? (I'm too serious about anything) I want to be an easygoing person.?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    first step in becoming an easy going person is: to be a positive looker!

    look positive on every situation. There are two ways to look at something, for e.g. a glass of orange juice is half full, you can say the glass is half full (which this is the positive way on looking at it) ir you can say the glass is half empty (this is the negative way on looking at it) like this the entire worlds creation you can look at both ways.

    think about it, that's the step 1 of becoming an easy going person.

    see everything positive!

    enjoy its worthwhile seeing the world that prospective - its a different world!

    all the best!

  • 1 decade ago

    I was the same way. I would make a huge stink about every little thing & couldn't just "chill". That's until my ex left me 6 months pregnant for another woman. Suddenly, I had to prioritize my life & I no longer had the energy to sweat the small stuff. That's what it took. Am I as easy going as a surfer on a California beach? Not even close. I am, however, much more aware of what requires my attention & what should just roll off my back.

    I learned it's all about putting things into perspective. Before you react too quickly to something, stop & ask yourself if it's ultimately worth your time & energy to focus on. Life-threatening situations don't apply. By doing this, you'll essentially retrain your brain to better handle problems.

    Source(s): Life.
  • 1 decade ago

    What problems?

    They're only "problems" if you choose to see them that way.

    You could see them as "challenges" or "opportunities" or a minor disturbance in the Force.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    put things into perspective (e.g. like 1 year later) so you can see how much they matter.

    and think about how small your problem is in the world

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  • 1 decade ago

    dont click the blackman link, it leads toa virus

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