I cant understand why this is happening to me?

It seems to me that he is not your boyfriend. He is playing you and more than likely is doing it to other girls. I don't wanna be mean about this, but you don't need to be putting up with this. That is NOT how mature people act in a relationship. He is taking advantage of you, and you do not deserve that. You are wasting your time with HIM!

If it were me, I would break up with him, and move on during this fun time in your life. If he pulls some crap about "how he loves you", tell him that if he really loved you he would have respected your feelings and not treat you the way he does. These men are manipulative. DO NOT let him talk you into keeping him. You are much better without him!

It will be hard, but you can be strong. I wish you all the luck and strength in the world!

That is not a relationship!! My boyfriend and I call each other everyday and we live together, I did have an "ex" who was like that....he didn't call me and if I called him he would talk for a bit, tell me he would call me back and than never call, I wouldn't see him for weeks and when I did he alway's had an excuse, so I broke up with him.......turned out he had a live in girl friend that he forgot to tell me about AND after I broke up with him he dated my cousin and tried to get with my little sister!!!! dump that loser!!!! you can so WAY better

girl, this man isn't telling you what's from his heart. he is not mature. a man who is, treats their woman with love and who sticks with them. Sweetie let him go he is not right. and i wish you the best for seeking for a new man. who's really MATURE. email me continously so i can help you more.

It sounds like you are wasting your time...Sorry, but if I was you, I'd have fun instead of wasting my youth worrying about someone who does not deserve it. Dump him.

No. He sounds weird and cranky, maybe a control freak. Loose him and find real love.