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In a bit of a sticky situation?

Okay...so I've got myself into a bit of a sticky situation.

I started talking to this guy over msn a few months ago...first off it was just chatting and getting to know eachother.

It got a bit serious though...I played along and let him believe it could lead on to something.

Last week he said he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he really wanted to visit or call me. He also said some weird things about kissing my picture goodnight...thats what made me realise how big my mistake was :(

I lied and said my phone hadnt been working...but I didnt have the guts to tell him I didnt have the same feelings for him...I suppose I loved seeing him happy and just felt sorry for him :( It was stupid I know.

Anyway...hes got a little obsessive...and he sends me about 10 emails a day...how do I get myself out of this? :(

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well, since you just know him online.... I would ignore all his emails and messages. If you don't want to completely stop talking to him, maybe just send him a message saying how you feel about this situation. He might understand you need some space. Try and not hurt his feelings. Even though he is an online friend and maybe you will never meet him... He has real feeling for you. As if you guys knew each other in person.

    Good luck!!! :)

  • 1 decade ago

    I wouldn't say anything just change all of your information and move on. I just hope he doesn't know your real name or where you live. If that's the case then you need to be a little weary for a while and be sure he isn't going to get even weirder on you. If you feel you owe him an explanation I would tell him that his behavior is making you feel uncomfortable and you only think of him as a friend then leave at that and change your e-mail and screen name.

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like me, u have nothing to do so u chat online makes friends and then u start liking him but then again u do not want to get with him.. Change email address! and thank god u anit give him ur number he would be calling u all day all night ! be careful on who u talk to because i did that once and the guy came to my house and i never gave him my number nor my address he just knows people i guess if u do not want to meet someone nor be with them never make them fall in love with u! people can go crazy

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    tell him ur reallysorry and u didnt meen 2 lead him on but u dont have feelings for him and u just wanted to be friends

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  • 1 decade ago

    wow... tough situation. My advice is to get out of that misunderstanding quickly. tell him ur sorry and u hav a boyfriend... or come up with another excuse

  • 1 decade ago

    Just be honest and tell him you don't feel the same. He will be hurt but not nearly as bad as if you ignore him or lie to him.

  • 1 decade ago

    first off never play with emotions or lead anyone on BUT you did SO you are in this situation...now did you learn anything from it? ...good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    block his screenname

    if he has your # get a new one

    just dont try to let him down or anything then he will go crazy and stalk you

    Source(s): common sense
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    get a new email and stay off msn!!!! dont try and contact him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well if you've never met him then don't reply, he could be an old man.

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